Pinkhair..what do I do?......This is what I done update!!!

[pinkhair]

Hello everyone well what can I say.....Me and my DS have a new house and my DS has a new mum, I am a completely different person to what I was before, I have had the chance of starting again and I took it with both hands. I have been to councelling which was part of the support group in my area to do with womens aid and wow how fantastic is that, i'm now doing the next 12 week course as well. I've also had councelling from a private counsellor which has helped me so much. My DS has settled down at school now too, and getting used to the idea of two houses etc. I am such a strong person now and so positive too, I have a new house, its the way I want it, changed my hair colour, brought a whole new wardrobe of clothes, and put my others at the charity shop. PHBF has been so supportive and again always there when I have a little blip. I will keep you all update through out xx:-D

Oh well done pink. You are an inspiration to others and a role model for others in a similar situation.
High five ti PHBF you are lucky to have such support.
What do we call you now. blondehair baldheid yellowbarnet

Sexy brunette ;-) lol

Good for you. Enjoy your new life to the full

What a fantastic post! Well done Sexy brunette Upwards and onwards. x

Well done love!! great to hear it! The energy and happiness is just leaping off the page!

Thanks for the update! I lurked on your original thread and stayed up all night reading it. It was so brilliant when you got out!

Just wanted to say, you're an inspiration and your best friend is a LEGEND !

xx Curly

Oh, I'm so proud of you - and DS, and PHBF :) :)

Thanks you very much for your update - well done! x

Thanks for all your lovely messages, I felt so good that I came out the other end a much better person I had to let you all know what a difference having loads of support on here has made to me. :-Dxx

So very glad to hear your update x

Eggy!! is that you

yes, it's Eggy

I had wondered where you had got to!!!!!

I have been here

Brilliant pinkhair! I am absolutely chuffed for you, you sound so happy :o

Eggy, are you by any chance a mahogany-coloured egg?

I am a chocolate egg

with a soft centre and a poor taste in ex-wives...

Pink, I meangt to add my congratulations too! I remember the thread and its lovely getting updates, especially happy ones

Wonderful to read this update pinkhair! So typically thoughtful of you to start this thread too. It was a long journey, but once you started to see what others could see and fortunately what the wonderful PHBF was able to endorse from her "on the scene" perspective, the only way was up.

I am especially delighted to read that your little DS is more settled. You should be so proud that you put him first and gave him the right to a happy childhood.

Wwifn... I do feel proud at what I have done for my DS, I keep telling myself that I had a chance to change my situation and give my DS a better life and I done it. And what a difference it has made to him, and to me too. I have hopefully broke the chain and when my DS grows up he will know how to treat a women unlike his dad.

Thank you all ladies for your lovely kind comments :-) xx

well done i remember how crushed you wqere in your first post onwards and upwards from now on xxx

Hi All, just a follow up update on my new life, my DS has the support from family solutions and he is doing really well, he has adjusted to his new life really well. I now have a new man in my life, and my DS loves him, he is a fantastic role model for him, and great support for me, i never knew what it was like to have a normal family life......i do now though, thanks again to everyone. :)

well done you!! i remember your posts and am so glad its working out ok for you and your DS best wishes for the future.