Pinkhair..what do I do?......This is what I done update!!!

[pinkhair]

Hello everyone well what can I say.....Me and my DS have a new house and my DS has a new mum, I am a completely different person to what I was before, I have had the chance of starting again and I took it with both hands. I have been to councelling which was part of the support group in my area to do with womens aid and wow how fantastic is that, i'm now doing the next 12 week course as well. I've also had councelling from a private counsellor which has helped me so much. My DS has settled down at school now too, and getting used to the idea of two houses etc. I am such a strong person now and so positive too, I have a new house, its the way I want it, changed my hair colour, brought a whole new wardrobe of clothes, and put my others at the charity shop. PHBF has been so supportive and again always there when I have a little blip. I will keep you all update through out xx:-D

Hi All,

Well what a mess my so called new man turned out to be, so controlling, it was like being with my exh all over again, only this time instead of it taking 20 years to get out, i got out after 8 weeks, i do feel proud of myself for recognising the signs, but yet again the wonderful PHBF was there for me again.....bless her and my other friend xxxx
Feel really shit though for letting him in to my sons life, a mistake i wont be doing again in a hurry.

I didn't follow your original thread but I totally agree with your analysis- 8 weeks far better than 20 years :-)
Well done for getting out when you did. Onwards and upwards :-)

Aww Pink that's so sad about your new DP, but well done on spotting the signs and getting rid so quickly.
Don't give up there are some good men out there just take your time, there is no rush.
Perhaps you should have a wee spell on your own consentrating on your DS and yourself, so that you can learn a bit more about yourself and why you seem to be attrated to controlling men.
you have come a very long way in a short time. Well done (and well done PHBF)

You should feel proud of yourself love, you spotted it, named it and did something about it!

Take it slow, your radar is good, you can trust your instincts, you have wonderful friends.

Don't beat yourself up.

If nothing else, you showed your DS that men who do that, are kicked out.

(((HUG)))

Thank you ladies, i do feel proud of myself, and yes i am having a break from men, just me and my DS. :o

Double well done from me, too, PH :) :) You're an inspiration!