I know this is evil....

[cherrysquash]

and I'm probably going to be flamed BUT I just found out that the OW who had a fling with my idiotic DH has fallen over while totally rat-arsed and hurt herself badly.

Karma is a bitch isn't it

Aw.....well, that should keep her away from other peoples husbands for a while!

Now all you need is for your H to shut his dick in the door or something.

badly ?

like in a coma of something ?

you all sound as awful as each other < shrug >

ooooo I like Karma!!!

A neighbour of mine took the mickey (in a very nasty way) when I was hacking away at the snow and ice on my drive and in the street. Fortnight later she broke her ankle on her own UNCLEARED driveway.
Oh how I laughed

lol at your idiotic dh shutting his nob in a door

I hope you can help him with that

[evil bitch]

Not badly as in a coma, but broken bone(s), not unlike my heart at the time peterandre but perhaps you have never been there, lucky you. springchicken I hear that

yes, I've been there

but I dumped the cheating fucker

now that is karma

Are you still with your DH?

Odd that you relish her harming herself and yet have forgiven him.

But yes i can understand a sense of pleasure to know that she has harmed herself by behaving presumably innapropriatly.

Did the ow trap idiotic dh with a lassoo around his ankles? ....

Thought, not. Less 'idiot', more 'cheating bastard'.

I'm intrigued as to how this woman managed to have a fling with someone else's DH without him having a fling with her. Sort of remote control flinging, maybe.

Don't think cherry is saying that at all.Just expressing understandable pleasure in the ow's misfortune! So what? She hasn't actually done anything! Calm down!

how odd to blame the OW who had absolutely no loyalty owed to you whatsoever

God you are judgie aren't you judie! Not odd at all, an OW is hardly blameless assuming she knew she was an OW. I would certainly take pleasure from knowing that someone who wronged me had some misfortune whatever the circumstances.

If your DH had fallen over badly would you say it was karma?

I am with Annie - it's not like OW had a remote control fling with your DH!

In fact I'd probably have been the one dishing out the misfortune. What is all this don't blame the OW shit? It takes 2 to fuck, there is no innocent party apart from the one being cheated on so show a little understanding, sheesh

thing with karma is, if revel in it, it comes back to you.

if 'you'

TootsDevill I hear you

oh i'm so unPC....

Interested in finding out what 'karma' you would be giving your dh,

How do you all know that the OP has not already taken pleasure in her DHs karma previous to this??

Makes me laugh - poor old other woman attitude. Unless she was duped by OPs DH then she was complicit in playing hide the sausage with him.

So many judgey perfectious people on here. FFS - Would really like to see how many of you would ONLY blame your DH's if they were ever unfaithful to you and never feel any vengeance what so ever towards the OW.

But of course - I expect you judgey pants lot have such perfect relationships - the very thought your faithful Dhs may ever even be tempted is out of the question.

FGS - lighten up. We are all human and not perfect.
Most people take pleasure in seeing someone get some kind of Karma, whether its the person that nabbed the parking space before you did or whether its the woman that loved bouncing off your husbands cock.

Well said batty!

Well to be fair, OP knew that not everyone was going to agree with her!

and of course, batty, the descriptive language you used there is going to help the OP a whooooole lot, isn't it

I find my advice to dump the cheating fuckers much more useful than that, tbqh

taking your anger out on the OW only serves to let him off the hook, and oh how many men just love to know they have women ripping each other's metaphorical hair out over them

what an ego boost, eh

the only karma I would wish would be on him, that both women dump him from a very large height, afer making sure to tell him he is shit in the sack

he is no prize to fight over, that is for sure....best to walk away and let the OW take the booby prize, IMO

So you believe affairs mean the end of the marriage/relationship in every single instance peter?

Oh here we go. Read the bloody language of the op.

The ow who had a fling with my idiotic dh

The writer is clearly accusing the ow of being the baddie, she had the fling, the man who made the vows is the every so cutesy 'idiotic dh', imferring he was dragged away from his true love through no fault of his own, after all, he's just an idiot.

I personally would never forgive an affair, but would never judge people who manage to get over them, and do all the required soul searching and hard work. This however, comes across as rather different.

And, fwiw, I don't give a flying fuck who my partner cheats with, she is so not the problem. He is, and to kid yourself otherwise is foolish. He made the vows, he broke them.