Two things that DP does that are really starting to grate on me.
- If ever he's on his online bank he'll shut it down before I see it. He's always made out it was co-incidence and that he just happens to be "finished" at the point where I walk in the room but this morning it was SO obvious. I saw him half log in to the acount when he didn't realise I was there. I walked in and let me presence be known and he instantly shut down the bank window. I asked why and he said he'd finished. I said "what, half way through logging in??" and just said "don't be silly" and repeated that everytime I questioned it further.
Yet only an hour earlier he was sat with me whilst I checked my online bank. Why does he think its ok for him to look at mine but not vice versa??
- He deletes messages off his phone and then denies it. He got this phone at christmas and was constantly texting on it yet when I looked (pls don't ask why I look at his phone, isn't it obvious?) his inbox was more or less empty apart from a load of texts off me and a few off his dad. I asked why he'd deleted the others. He said there were no others!! A few weeks later I check again - empty inbox. One night his text message ring tone went off whilst he was in the shower. I didn't look at it, but when he got out of the shower he looked at it and then put the phone down again. I later checked, the new message had been deleted.
I said last night "these new phones are great, loads of memory, you never have to delete your texts! do you find that?" he said "yes, they're good". I said "I've not had to delete any messages yet, have you?" and he said "nope! tons of space". Yet when I last asked him why he deletes his texts he said it's to "save space".
Over to the jury.