shall i marry him after him breaking my heart last time??

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Wow were do i start telling use?

Was with my Partner who is 8 years older than me. We was fine everything was great. Untill his ex discoverd she was pregnant. She inboxed me on fb and told me the baby was concived while, i was with my Partner. I forgave him, then a couple of months later the proposed and i said yes.

We was paying off stuff had things booked, everything was fine, he moved in with me and then one day he woke up an decided its not what he wanted and left.

We hadnt spoken for 3 months then we got back in contact. He explained that never wanted to leave he just wanted to do what was rite for his baby (with his ex). Them 2 got back together, didnt last long as they have broke up after 2 months.

On new year's eve i ended up in hospital and he came with me. a few days later he asked for me back and i said yes, he proposed again on Saturday just gone, i also said yes but i didnt think he wanted to start paying off stuff again.

I dont know wether to start paying off things again or have a very long engagement??

He has also asked me for a baby, i have a 2 year old and his baby isnt born yet, his ex still has 8 weeks left. i dont know what to do about that either.

Dont get me wrong i do love this lad more than any man in the world lol.

put aside the cheating he is a lovly lad and will do anything for you. I do honestly believe he has changed this time but i still have that doubt in my head more on the marriage than anything else.

Any advise on what i should do would be great thanks.

No,you deserve better than a liar and cheat.Be strong do not let him con you again.Once a liar,always a liar.

Once a cheat always a cheat aswell as the old saying goes lol

Find a nice reliable man who is not a player, who will not break your heart.

niceshoes there isn't many of them about these days haha

A beautiful girl like you?Surely not.

Thank you niceshoes i will have have to kiss alot of frogs before i find my prince charming though :)

Glad you're feeling more sure of yourself. Let us know how it goes when you speak to him. :) You are right that your little girl will be much better off having a clean break with him now, than seeing him come in and out of the house over the next few years.

sweetcheeks, you only need to meet one nice man though. You're doing the right thing, take it from an old bird who had to kiss a few frogs too! Good luck, and let us know how you get on.

Actually I just thought there what my life would have been like if I was still with the bloke I went out with at your age. SCAREY THOUGHT!!!

SPend some time being single till you have worked out who you are and what you want out of life. You are clearly very young, which means you have all sorts of opportunities open to you.
Forget this tiresome man, who sounds like the sort who loves impregnating women so he can run around boasting that his willy works.

Will let you all know what happens :) won't see him for a few days though as he went on nights last night xx

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