Another cheating lying a*se has been kicked out. What the hell do I do now?

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Can't quite believe I'm actually posting this - I never thought it would happen to us...

He's been caught out, largely thanks to the signs I learned about here. I've kicked him out tonight, but what the hell do I do now?

Gwink - I wish you well & what WWIFN said too. We're here no matter what.

You sound like an intelligent lady, and definitely not one to have the wool pulled over her eyes.

I wish you good luck....he sounds like he really wants to make the marriage work. Who knows, you might come out of this with a better marriage than you had before!

all the best x

Gwink - I think that you have to do what feels right for you and your family. If you think you can make it work out then I hope that is what happens for you both.

I agree with WWIFN that it is a good sign he admitted he would probably have gone on to have sex with this woman if you hadn't caught him out.

What bothers me is his timing - at a time when you were under personal pressure, having health issues and operations, rather than support you through all that he found attention from somewhere else. That I find despicable.

However - if he is truly repentant (not just cos he was found out) and is prepared to go to counselling to sort stuff out, then there is hope.

Do come back if you need further support or advice or even just to chat about what comes up over the next few weeks - we're here.

Good luck! X