No 
We got together when i was 19, he was 25...he was a laugh, and very into me - i lived away from home, and the security and confidence he gave me was lovely. He's good looking, very easy to get on with, but I never really fancied him iykwim
Got preg 6 months later. Had DS1 when I was 20. From very early age it was apparent DS1 had severe learning difficulties, and other medical problems. We got married when I was 21, parental pressure on both sides. (wedding was a quick jaunt to registry office in a hired dress, then back to DS's bedside in hospital)
We clung together through DS's ill health tbh.
Then, 2 years later, just after DD was born, DH got ill. He was in and out of hospital for a long time, 3 or 4 years, and is now disabled, and in a wheelchair.
What kills me is that everyone thinks we're this fantastic couple. DS1 now 15, and yes, severely disabled, but a lovely boy. We also have healthy DD and DS2, and own our own business. People often say to us that we're such great couple who've come through such adversity and look how we've survived it.
But I don't want my life.
And I feel like such a fraud. DH a fantastic, wonderful man. Easy to talk to, very loving and attentive. And yes, if I'm honest the disability gets to me. I feel his leg stumps touch me in bed and I want to vomit. And that's terrible, I know. I love him, but I was never IN LOVE with him.
I wouldn't hurt DH for the world, but just for once, I'd love to feel the in love , or feeling that someone is love of your life that other people do.
I'm sorry, I seem to have hijacked this thread to offload, but I never tell anyone in RL how I feel, so thx mumsnet...having a little self-indulgent but theraputic cry here too.