Boyfriend says we "need a chat"

[frazzle26]

Feeling rather sad tonight and have come online as I cac't sleep hence being online at 03:49. My bf came over last night for dinner and was due to stay the night but when I woke up about 45 mins ago he'd gone. I called him and he said he'd gone home as he couldn't sleep. I was very upset about this, part of it was prob just because I just woken up as well as the annoyance of him actually going without telling me.

He then said that he thought we needed "to talk". He then went on to say that he hadn't been feeling right about things for a while and didn't know what he wants for the future. TBH, I've been getting this vibe from him for a while (we've been going out for just over 2 months) but I really like him and I don't want us to split.

Just want sympathy more than anything lol!! Think the outcome is fairly inevitable with it being such a new relationship.

Thanks. Its such a shitter that its right before christmas too - and i went through the exact same thing last christmas with another bloke too.

OH well, onwards and upwards, i guess.
Hope you feel ok x

I feel exactly the same. Oh well, at least I hadn't bought his present yet lol!!

i had!
Got to send the damn thing back now

Oh well, use the money to buy yourself something nice xx

You did really well kicking this frog to the curb and standing by your own convictions!

I know that it wont seem this way to you, it didn't to me at your age, but you are YOUNG you have plenty of time to meet someone wonderful and have more kids, truely you do!

Kick ALL of the frogs to the curb until you find your prince and don't 'settle' for a 'not a complete frog but no prince either!?'

Last year I had a "not a complete frog but no prince" and I finished with him. He was a lovely guy, fantastic with my son but the spark wasn't there for me. If I could combine certain qualities from that guy with certain qualities from the one I've just finished with then I'd be on the way to my perfect man!! If only lol!! x

If only we could do that!!

The thing to keep in mind is, that looking for your prince is supposed to be fun:) Enjoy the good memories and look forward to making more with others on the way.