Can you all comment on this email to my ex?

[Amanda1]

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I wouldn't send it, your playing into his hands, its reaction he wants, stuff him, ignore him, go to the police with your worries/seek legal advice, get an injunction against him, if he wants to play silly buggers, then play properly fully within the law, so he knows where he stands, might just make him grow up a bit.

lol Amanda1 sorry but I cant help having a little chuckle reading that

love the Weirdo. bit!

If the intention is to make him feel like a dick and set the message that you are well and truly sick of him then yep! Send it

how far along are you now?

You sound to angry, he will think you still give a damn, I think a much shorter, calmer email getting straight to the point would get the message across. Dont ask any questions, that way your email will seem final.

Good luck

dont send it.

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don't send it. if you really don't want any contact then ignoring him is the way forward. An email like this will mean he replies - then you reply - then he replies - and so on. you are just wasting your energy I'd say.
sounds like a dick though

IGNORE HIM! really ....

Did you send it?

Did you want comments on whether or not to send it, or the fact that you have sent it?

if he starts harressing you/stalking then call the police.

thank god I am not the only one this time!

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don't send it. U might need to get things sorted out legally, which means you need to stay calm. Things like this really won't help. I sympathise with you, but agree you need to ignore him.

Oh, crossed posts! I was talking then pressed send, and you had already sent a message!

I agree with the others, leave it until you have gathered your thoughts a bit.

if u want him to see the baby after she isa born but u dont want to see him, then u can arrange to go through contact centres.

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Amanda, don't send it. Keep the moral highground, ignore him entirely, so he will (hopefully) have a mental image of you swanning around serenely quite oblivious of his existance...

Seriously though, the best way to get your own back for his pathetic behaviour is to give the impression that he is irrelevant to your life. From what you have said about him, he likes to think that you are hanging off his every word and at his beck and call...ignore him, it's the best form of revenge

Think of him like an errant toddler - if they can't get positive attention, they'll keep at it until they are rewarded with negative attention. Send the email and you are rewarding him.

Try not to let this man ( if thats what he is) scare you. Log all the messages/texts etc and if it continues go to the police and seek legal advice. Try to enjoy being pregnant and look forward to your gorgeous baby.

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Agree, agree, agree!

They are all right!!!

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Good. You stand by your guns. x