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Hypocrisy on MN

126 replies

EscortKarin · 13/11/2010 22:31

Been having a look at some of the threads on here....

There are some of you who seem to be tempted to have an affair - to put it bluntly, to fuck outside of your marriage/partnership and are asking for advice. Whatever that given advice may be, the desire, the temptation is still there.

Do you care to acknowledge that your SO may have similar thoughts....if he chooses to have an affair he may invest real emotion in the arrangement; alternately the other woman may become a bit of a 'bunny boiler'.

All a man is doing in seeing a prostitute is yielding to the same temptations that women also are vulnerable to, but ensuring that there is NO threat to the status quo of their marriage.

Prostitution SAVES marriages

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DioneTheDiabolist · 13/11/2010 23:59

So Dittany, Emmyloulou and Lissielou, what has you fine ladies up at this time?

I am drinking wine.Grin

AnnieBeansMum · 14/11/2010 00:00

I agree with dittany about using derogatory terms.

dittany · 14/11/2010 00:01

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EscortKarin · 14/11/2010 00:02

Was mostly just curious - in the main, you have confirmed my suspicions.

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ElisabethAlice · 14/11/2010 00:02

Karin's not a woman, Dittany.

I hate those Punternet trolls pretending to be women.

Do they really think we won't catch them out?

dittany · 14/11/2010 00:03

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DooinMeCleanin · 14/11/2010 00:03

First of all let me just point out that I have absolutely nothing against prostitution and escorts. Some of my closest friends used to be working girls. And mamatomany for every sob story like your friends there is another woman who does genuinely enjoy (or at least accept) her work and is not damaged by it.

But - op - in what way is a woman thinking about cheating in way, shape or form more damaging to a relationship than the man actually sleeping with another woman, prostitute or not? Which is what your op seems to say

chipmonkey · 14/11/2010 00:04
Biscuit
Thingumy · 14/11/2010 00:05

how about 'piss off back off back to punternet'?

1Catherine1 · 14/11/2010 00:05

Ahh so it's true! Trolls do invade MN too.

DioneTheDiabolist · 14/11/2010 00:05

Dittany, you were hoping to gain insight. I fear that the OP doesn't have any to offer. If I were you I'd just go to bed. Had 2 and a half glasses now, I don't think I'll be long for this forum.

ElisabethAlice · 14/11/2010 00:06

We've just had a 1,000 post thread on prostitution.

If we don't feed the trolls, they'll go home to Punternet.

ShanahansRevenge · 14/11/2010 00:07

EsortKarin...you should know how weird blokes can be lol!

emmyloulou · 14/11/2010 00:07

I guess dittany, find the whoke madonna whore thing disrespectful considering the forum.....

I am drinking champagne, hubby bought it for me (I know pin money etc, etc).

He lavished expensive vino on me, I watched take that Grin got pissed and will go to bed, no hooker in site ta.

wukter · 14/11/2010 00:07

What suspicions?
About people who are up late on the internet?
That leaves me no option but to chant singsong Takes One To Know One.

You haven't addressed my point of 23:00.

HappyWithLife · 14/11/2010 00:07

Why the language? That's why the last thread went so rapidly downhill. Dittany, we crossed swords on quite a few posts in the last thread, and for that I apologise. It actually did genuinely upset me seeing women turning on each other like that. But if the vitriol can be kept out of this thread then it could be a very enlightening thread for both sides.

OracleInaCoracle · 14/11/2010 00:08

dh has just got in from work so he is watching the football highlights while I fb/mn/rage at all and sundry.

ps, agree with dittany re namecalling. karina may be unsavoury, but she/he doesnt deserve those names, noone does.

dittany · 14/11/2010 00:14

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HappyWithLife · 14/11/2010 00:17

Dittany, for the last time, just because I have a differing opinion to you, does not mean I am wrong and you are right, or that I am a man/prostitute/ punternet person or anything else. Get a grip. You clearly have issues with anybody crossing you.
I completely agree...crowing about sleeping with a woman's husband is horrible and cruel, which is why I said if the nastiness stopped on both sides it could be a discusiion rather than a mud slinging contest.

emmyloulou · 14/11/2010 00:18

See the name calling ok is maybe out of order.

I don't think so you know what you are doing coming on to a relationship topic of a mums forum saying you fuck husbands as a service, save relationships and are saving the world.

You are either thick or you are men there is no other explanation either way it's trolling.

HappyWithLife · 14/11/2010 00:19

And for what it's worth, I think Karin's statement that prostitution saves marriage is the biggest load of BS I have heard in a long time.

OracleInaCoracle · 14/11/2010 00:22

i agree with dittany's last paragraph. this forum attracts mainly women, many of whom are in a relationship. coming on here to say that "All a man is doing in seeing a prostitute is yielding to the same temptations that women also are vulnerable to, but ensuring that there is NO threat to the status quo of their marriage.

Prostitution SAVES marriages" is always going to evoke a lot of anger. the op hasnt responded to any attempts to discuss her statements, and shows hallmarks of trollery. she (if she is who she says) sleeps with other peoples partners/husbands then comes on here to justify it. nope, not right at all.

thumbwitch · 14/11/2010 00:26

no actually I started off with "no doubt you're a prostitute yourself" but decided not to go that route just in case it brought on a fit of outrage, but frankly I couldn't give a rat's arse now.

HappyWithLife · 14/11/2010 00:29

Thumbwitch...who was that to?

thumbwitch · 14/11/2010 00:34

sorry, to the OP from page 1 or 2, she accused me of lacking in intelligence for suggesting there might be some leeway in her name.