Living with him is impossible.
It is like he can use the excuse "I am not a morning person" to do and say the most outrageous stuff.
This morning he has called me a cunt numerous times and when giving ds his dinner money he said "enjoy it I haven't got any" 
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I did tell him what a wanker he was to put a guilt trip on a 13 year old but he just shouted a bit more.
The reason behind the money comment is because he is doing overtime atm which is a blessing as we are not exactly struggling but we are trying to save for Christmas and other stuff.
His overtime is roughly 60.00 a week he has been spending 10.00 a day which adds up to 60.00 a week so seems pointless.
I asked him to take sandwiches (fridge and tea making stuff are at his work) we have loads of nice stuff in to make a packed lunch and I do resent spending a lot on food a week for him to blow another 60.00 on crap and now he is pissed off about it.
He also comes home at night and spends money on his cigarettes and drinks about 5 cans of coke a day.
I order 18 cans a week on the home shopping and they are all gone by Tuesday and he is constantly buying them.
I am so pissed off he is so irrational and stupid in a morning I really don't want him home tonight as I can't face tomorrow morning
and he is going to be pissed off because he is going to football match tonight and now DS does not want to go with him and I can't say I blame him.
I just want out TBH.