what a great thread,i do have a fantastic husband,he is my best friend too.
His is funny and can laugh at the silliest things,
He is patient and never get angry unless pushed too far[by his mother]
He is warm and sends flowers to his mum on her birthday every year,his identical twin never seem to remember his own mother's birthday,
He stood up to his mum when she didn't want him to marry me coz i was poor and the wrong colour and not educated(PHD) and i have just a sec diploma,
He is rather good on the emotional side and can tell a mile away if i have had a bad day or not
He always tells me the truth about my clothes,if something looks good he will say,if something doesn't suit he will say'why don't you try this one instead,i think it agrees with so and so,,
When i was pregnant,i would get a serious full body massage,my feet were in heaven,,
When i had our DD,he stayed at home for two weeks to help,woke up every night with me,sometimes would let me sleep while he fed the baby,
Every saturday is mine to do as i wish,he takes the baby out the whole day,,damn you bad norwegian winter!
He calls me Pearl because he says when he met me,he knew i was special,,
For the past two years i have been attending evening classes to learn norwegian and continued after the baby,he looks after her
He has said i don't have to go back to work but i feel after a year and a half i will want to go back and he will support me anyway.
For months after giving birth sex was not on my mind,all he did was hug and cuddle,no pressure,,only love,and he is one hot ,romantic man,
i have to say in the begginning i had terrible thoughts,that he would die,or the baby would,because it he was too good to be true,but then realised that this was my time,i come from a country that is on its knees as we speak,a family that was so poor,all i knew was pain,sorrow and heartache,so i embraced this blessing with an open heart and mind,and just live one day at a time and hope for the best,who knows what tomorrow brings,which is why its important to be grateful for each day,,sorry too long,had to get it off my chest.
i am thankful that i got him,it could have been his twin brother then i wouldn't be on this thread,thank God...