ok, a quick one here, so apologies for typo's in advance..
im supposed to go round to a friends for dinner in an hour or so..she had rang me to invite me round. we already knew we would meet up sometime this week but hadnt planned anything solid.
My partner was aware of this and was fine about it. however i havnt seen my friend for about a month and the last time i went we argued about it all night when i got home and he told me to leave. he said i came back too late (half nine-ish) and that he was waiting for me and was angry because i didnt reply to his texts straight away.
today before my friend invited me round to hers for dinner (she is paying, i have no money) my partner hinted that he didnt want me to go to meet up with her so i said that if we go to a cafe he could come (i hadnt asked her this yet and was unsure of what we were going to do) he does have some money and said that he wasnt sure because it would be expensive and he wanted to buy and electric heater for the apartment.
anyway, about twenty mins ago my friend called and told me what she had planned for us, and i felt guilty about her paying and was unsure..so then partner suggested that she come round ours and he pay for a takeaway and we watch a film or chat whilst he plays online games. i texted the suggest to friends and then she called back saying she really didnt mind paying for the meal at hers and so i said ok (as long as she was sure) i told the partner and now he is angry saying im choosing her over him, that he isnt coming to a family party this saturday (he wanted to go out drinking with friends instead anyway) and that i should invite my friend seeing as she means more to me than him!
ok i know he is being a dick and rather unreasonable but should i go or should i stay..as i know if i go he will be very unhappy and guilt-trip me all night when im back home and possibly all week up until the party so that he doesnt have to come.