help me

[mugface]

what would you do if for whatever reason you hadn't slept with dh for a month, he was very annoyed about it and said some hurtful stuff to you.
Then next day he says he's going upstairs to wait for you to come and get dressed in front of him(your downstairs in pj's)
you mutter that he'll have a long wait as you are confused and still upset.
Then an hour or so later when he has gone back downstairs you pick up your clothes to dress only to find he has had a w**nk all over your knickers.
i am so wound up i can hardly breathe, please help.

On the other hand I've just explained the background to the thread to my dh after laughing at Magnolias "stick up the arse" comment, and his response was something along the lines of "What an arsehole" so it's not just us females that think his behaviour is out of order.

Mugface - I just wanted to reassure you i didnt think you were a troll at all! I remember you as pleaserewind too! I have changed my name so know what it is like to feel new although not actually

No helpful advice to offer though Sorry {{{}}}

Mugface - I just wanted to reassure you i didnt think you were a troll at all! I remember you as pleaserewind too! I have changed my name so know what it is like to feel new although not actually

No helpful advice to offer though Sorry {{{}}}

oops posted twice sorry!

any update mugface?

HI,
dh has apologised
i decided to tell him exactly how his behaviour has been making me feel.
I also told him that i think his behaviour over the years reagrding sex has led me to view sex in a not very nice light alot of the time but i said that whatever the reason i don't want to do it i WILL NOT feel bullied or guilty and i can't change how i feel.
He said it's a problem that he wants it loads and i don't but he doesn't want to split up.
So, at the moment, he's sorry but things are rather cool.
I want to say thanx to all you lovely mumsnetters tho. your wise words did help

Glad youve sorted out your differences.

And he has acknowledged why you were so upset.

I dont know, blokes cant live with em and all that.

Good luck with everything