I read the thread about the husband not able to cope with an ASDA delivery during the football with interest - was amazed at some of the answers.
So I thought I'd start a new thread to find out more. So tell me, what is life like in your household, esp. at the weekend? In the emkana household the "default option" is that we spend the weekend together. We do a mixture of activities (swimming, walks, days out, shopping etc.), again generally all together. We also spend time just relaxing at home, with dh and me reading the paper or one of us at the computer or whatever, and the children playing. We don't have the TV on in the day, apart from when Formula 1 is on. This is basically due to me, if it was up to dh he'd watch other motorracing or other sports or whatever is on, but he defers to me .
It is definitely the case that if one of us wants to do something alone they check with the other if it's okay. I don't know if you want to call it asking for permission - I would find it hurtful for me and the dd's if dh just took himself off whenever he felt like it.
Am rambling now - but am v. interested how it works for other families. Do you/does your dh really just grab your/his keys and leave? Don't you agree how you'll spend the weekend together?
Find this fascinating and am hoping for plenty of responses!
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me-time vs. family time - expectations and reality
emkana · 03/09/2005 22:25
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