3some

[deburca]

Had heated discussion about this today during lunch. 8 girls 6/2 against. I think its quite dangerous for a relationship not to mention healthwise.

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meant to finish that with - what you think? lol

I think you have to have a very strong sense of what you want from your relationship and any kind of liaison...... Probably best kept as a fantasy for most people. I know a few people who have done it while in pretty casual relationships who never really wanted to talk about it after!!

It's not for me because I would get really jealous and insecure.

But it works for some people - different strokes and all that...

I can't even share my maltesers, so I doubt it would work for me

If I ever did it, it would have to be me and 2 blokes

I suspect that scenario is relatively uncommon though...and I reckon I know the reason why

Is your name Coleen?

true to your name then AF :)

and ditto anyfucker

I couldn't do two blokes as then I might be spit roasted - ewww - too degrading

And another girl would make me jealous

So no

slash...I would hope you still get some choice over what happens to you

even during the ubiquitous 3some

anyway, 3somes are soooooo 1970's, it's very passe

Nice on principle, just don't see how it would work

I would have liked to when I was single, yeah.

The only way I would consider it is if it was, as AF says, two blokes or I was the third.

Fantasies are best left as just that. Too much potential for damage to a relationship here.

Generally, a man that wants a threesome wants two women. Women are less inclined to want to share their man.

With AF here, for me it would have to be two blokes! (Not that I'd ever go there!)

I would only do it if:

a. I could immediately erase everyone's memory
b. It was all on my terms

Unlikely, no? Believe me, I have debated this point over and don't think I could really do it without those provisos, and they aren't very likely.

I like AF's idea that it would be just everyone giving me a good time though :-) But then that would mean no men, surely? Sorry, allegedly.

at erase everyone's memory

AF - surely that'd be the main point? Seeing them again (whoever they are) would be WAY too embarrassing. If I could erase memories I'd get up to all sorts :-) I guess that's why we fantasise, and apparently why we fantasise about slebs; so it doesn't get too realistic.

Interesting that deburca has gone away - am I going to be in the Mail? If so, I want cash

Slash,

I didnt intentionally go away, my internet went down! lol

I personally couldnt do it, i would be too insecure and I think it would be something that would haunt me forever.

I dont know anyone really who has done this and the people involved in the discussion are women. Has anyone tried it and thought it ok?

And no my name is not Coleen!

deb

ok - i have done this.
It was in my early 20's with two men. One of who was my boyfriend who i later ended up marrying and the other was his best friend.

Im not embarassed by it, and i dont regrett it at all. In fact it was pretty fab and i very much enjoyed being the centre of attention. It happened pretty regulary for a peroid of about 6 months, but then one night my boyfriend got jealous so that was the last time.

If the right oppurtinty arose i would do it again witout a doubt, but it needs to be the right circumstances.

I think if you have been together for a long time, or are deeply in love then its probably not a good idea. If its more casusl, or the start of the relationship, then thats better. ALso i think you need to feel safe and that at any point you could stop if you wanted to.

Have done this a couple of times.MMF.I'm straight and it has purely been for the pleasure/experience of the women involved.The practicalities of a 3some obviously work better with two guys and a woman.I personally think that blokes who crave the two women at the same time experience are on some kind of ego trip,it's just not practical.Unless you were born with two cocks of course!

"The practicalities of a 3some"

Personally I don't want another man's engorged spam-ram anywhere near me. Obviously I get offers of more than one chick extremely often as I'm a very desirable ugly bastard with broken teeth man.

Can I ask did you feel kind of horrible after you did it, call it Catholic guilt (ive been accused of it before) but I think the fantasy would be better than the reality.

The thing is no one ever really tells you what its like

deb

In my (vicarious before you ask) experience cocaine lends itself to 3/4/5somes, or sleeping with your girl and her sister as they get it on, for months, (one of my mates).

With coke you lose so much empathy for other people you can do anything.

"Can i stick this chair up your arse?"

"Sure"

"Fancy a line?"

"Sure"

"Shall I take the chair out?"

"What chair? Oh whatever. Chop it out will ya."

Never felt horrible at all.Although I understand that it is not for everyone.First time was as the "extra" guy with a couple.She was a tennis coach who thoroughly enjoyed the experience of being the centre of attention.I believe after the first occasion the lady went on to repeat the experience with more than two guys.Each to their own.