He has got himself a provident loan, but that's ok, it's not for him, it's for someone at work.
So we now owe provident £660.
But that's ok, of course the bloke at work will pay it back.
I am utterly flabbergasted. I knew he was not the brightest star in the sky, but I had no idea he could be quite this stupid. And to try and ^lie6 about it when confronted.
I made him promise in April that he will never again get a loan or credit cad, or HP agreement of any kind without consulting me first. He has no financial sense whatsoever.
I am dreading him coming home from work, I don't think I can control myself, and I have to work tonight.
For those that don't know, we live in HA accomadation, we have a toddler and a baby on the way.
He knows, because I have told him, that the easiest way to push me over the edge to a nervous breakdown is to get loans out that we can't pay back.
To top it all off, the "bloke at work" has gone on holiday to another country with this money, as dp knew he was going to. We have never been abroad, we have never been able to afford to.
I feel utterly angry, betrayed, cheated and unloved. if he loved me how could he overlook me with something as big as this?