I'm not sure I can get over this, please help

[Mosschops30]

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Good night Mosschops. Don't strangle DH in his sleep.

OMG this other bloke sounds like a prize tit, and he should have been shot at birth!

Yup - your dh needs to understand and accept how hurt you are and apologise profusely and sincerely. Give him time and I'm sure he will.

It sounds like dh really isn't friends with this bloke, but that this bloke happens to be part of the fixtures and fittings within an established social group - so in fairness to your dh, it is difficult to avoid contact without avoiding the group.

However, your dh could have and should have made a point of not going to his party.

Remember, dh is male and therefore flawed , with a tendency to crap judgement. After further reflection my money is on dh realising just how upset you feel by this and really trying to make amends. I hope so.......

Take care...

Friend sounds like a complete prat and possibly jealous of you and dh and your life. Being the only single one in the crowd probably really riles him, especially at a wedding. Agree with others in that DH ws completely wrong to go along to his party but he has shown to his friend that you don't stop him doing what he wants to do. Don't let someone so sad spoil your relationship - that's exactly what he wants!! Hope things settle down for you soon.

How are you doing today, Mosschops?

DP did this to me once. His friend was really horrible to me and at the time DP was about to deck him one (most unlike him). A couple of weeks later I'd stayed in my student house alone over Easter to be with him (instead of going back to parents), said friend was having a party that weekend. Well you can guess the rest can't you? I went back to my parents and refused to speak to him for several days. I felt so betrayed.

of course the other option is that he fancies your dh, and is venting his repressed sexuality on you....i'm only half joking!!!

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