Hi again everyone. Have had much discussion with DH and will summarise where we are now at.
Thanks again for all your helpful and wonderful posts. Bethylou I think I had previously disregarded leamington as too expensive, but have had another look and it actually looks OK. Like the look of this for instance, any comments?
Norton, Stourbridge was previously my top choice, but DH has had a look at commuting times and as there is no station there it looks as if it will take as long to get from Norton to Birmingham as it would from somewhere like Malvern... so sadly it looks as if norton has gone down the list as it doesn't really offer us much convenience given it is so close to Birmingham.
The next step for us is to check school places and drive down and have a look, these are the areas we'll be focussing on:
Bournville - sounds very picturesque and probably best commute for DH, but I'm worried about schools (particularly secondary) and crime rate - have never lived so close to a big city. Think we'll struggle to get a nice, big enough house in a good area for our money.
Harbourne - Similar to Bournville - but probably even more expensive.
Norton nr Stourbridge - looks lovely and has the rural location that I'd like, looks like we could get a nice big house for our money. However, DH thinks the commute willbe a pain (no train station there).
Bromsgrove - this may have shot up to number 1 favourite! Seems to be quite rural (more so than areas to the north of Birm?) and has a station so better commute. I think we could get a good house for our money. I know it has some bad areas, but hopefully these would be pretty obvious when we look around??
Kidderminister - Both me and DH have a good feeling about it, looks to have some nice houses in our price range - there are some bad comments about it on here I know, but we'll have a look and see what we think...
Sutton Coldfield/ Boldmere - Good for DH's commute, feels like a safe option but not as rural as I would like (I'd prefer countryside to the park). I think we'll struggle to get places in the schools to. May struggle to get a house in budget (theDM - that one you posted looks nice but is on a very busy road, still haven't seen anything that I would go for in our price range)
Lichfield - Similar to Sutton but commute not as good!
Wombourne, Wolverhampton - Probably my number 1 choice, looks like just the kind of place I want my family to grow up in...but the difficulty in commuting to Birm may well rule it out. Will only look at if DH will not be going into the office full time (we'll find that out this week!)
Leamington Spa - Looks lovely, but a long commute
Malvern - same as Leamington.
Any comments?
I think it's a pretty good list to start off our house hunt - so thanks everyone