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How should negotiate on property purchase?

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foursquares · 13/08/2026 21:58

Hi. First time buyer, appreciate some advice.

Saw a property we like, listed for £450k. It's been on the market just under 3 months. It's had one offer in first week, which was rejected by seller - I don't know amount.

We've recently offered £423k (6% under asking), which was rejected. According to agenct, seller looking for close to asking price.

Given that it's been on for a while, we're in a buyers market, and heading into post-summer period...couple of queries :

  1. The asking price is overpriced right?
  2. How should I approach negotiations?

Thanks in advance.

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Tortephant · 17/08/2026 12:30

anyolddinosaur · 17/08/2026 12:19

Did you leave the offer on the table? If anyone was thinking of offering something similar the agent will have told them there has been an offer under asking and it was refused. If you are very keen offer £430k and if it's refused say you are looking elsewhere.

Surprising to find first time buyers with so much cash, I'd expect my agent to actually confirm with your solicitor they'd seen proof of cash.

I'd thought that too, and I'd also be using that as a chunky deposit and taking a mortgage to get a higher value property, not for debt but for future value. there is a lot odd about this post!!

senua · 17/08/2026 12:41

rainingsnoring · 17/08/2026 11:59

I agree that different houses will have slightly different values, even on an estate.
However, you are wrong about the seller who decides the price. What happens if no buyer will pay the seller's preferred price for years, as is happening frequently in the last few years? Those sellers have no influence on the actual market of transactions. They are kite flyers only. In a falling market, it is the sellers who need or really want to move who actually make the market. These transactions then influence what the kite flying seller's property is worth to the downside, as they have previously to the upside.

I think that we all agree that each of us, as The Little People, don't have much influence on the market, whether we are the seller or the buyer.Grin
But my point still stands that the current owner of the house is the owner of the house. And things will stay that way unless/until either something drastic happens (e.g. three D) or someone gives them enough money reason to change their mind. No amount of foot-stamping by a frustrated buyer is going to force a sale.

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 15:31

senua · 17/08/2026 11:45

I'm on the same planet as Tortephant. People talk about "the housing market" but buyers don't buy "the market", they buy one particular house. Even on a new-build estate, people differentiate between the exact same house/floorplan because they are in different locations. For example, buying or not-buying because of the garden orientation is definitely A Thing; it may make a "minimal difference" to some people but it can be really important to others.
As houses get older - i.e. changed over time by adaptions, extensions, etc - the disparities get even more pronounced.
Houses are not identical, just as buyers & their wishlists are not identical.

Buyers can have extensive "wish-lists" but they may need or someone in their chain may need mortgage debt to act on those wishes, that is getting more expensive so houses have to get less expensive.

Tortephant · 17/08/2026 15:36

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 15:31

Buyers can have extensive "wish-lists" but they may need or someone in their chain may need mortgage debt to act on those wishes, that is getting more expensive so houses have to get less expensive.

Houses don’t “need to get less expensive” buyers have to choose what they can afford, eg a slightly lower valued property.
I don’t go shopping and say to an assistant I want to buy that dress but at this price because I haven’t had the pay rise I deserve, I choose a dress I can afford!

the reality is perhaps fewer buyers, that’s a totally different argument.

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 16:05

Tortephant · 17/08/2026 15:36

Houses don’t “need to get less expensive” buyers have to choose what they can afford, eg a slightly lower valued property.
I don’t go shopping and say to an assistant I want to buy that dress but at this price because I haven’t had the pay rise I deserve, I choose a dress I can afford!

the reality is perhaps fewer buyers, that’s a totally different argument.

This isn"t really logical because sellers are dropping price to sell all the time!

Tortephant · 17/08/2026 16:11

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 16:05

This isn"t really logical because sellers are dropping price to sell all the time!

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Some always have and will. Others are still achieving over their asking price, and this will always happen.

As for people dropping prices all over the place, a lot have out mortgaged themselves so NEED to sell quickly and so will lower the asking price to bail out or over extending themselves. That comes back to buying what you can afford.

paddleboardingmum · 17/08/2026 17:57

Houses don’t “need to get less expensive” buyers have to choose what they can afford, eg a slightly lower valued property.
I don’t go shopping and say to an assistant I want to buy that dress but at this price because I haven’t had the pay rise I deserve, I choose a dress I can afford!

It's not really like that though- more like if you wanted to sell a dress on vinted and want 1k for it. People are only offering you £500 max. You can either take the £500 or not sell it.

rainingsnoring · 18/08/2026 07:36

senua · 17/08/2026 12:41

I think that we all agree that each of us, as The Little People, don't have much influence on the market, whether we are the seller or the buyer.Grin
But my point still stands that the current owner of the house is the owner of the house. And things will stay that way unless/until either something drastic happens (e.g. three D) or someone gives them enough money reason to change their mind. No amount of foot-stamping by a frustrated buyer is going to force a sale.

Of course the current owner of the house is the owner. I don't think anyone can argue with that!
I don't think the 3Ds are at all drastic though. They happen every day and these are the sellers that actually make the market. The other kite flying sellers can get stamp their feet too but the market will fall if there are no buyers available at desired pricing and others need to sell.

rainingsnoring · 18/08/2026 07:38

Tortephant · 17/08/2026 15:36

Houses don’t “need to get less expensive” buyers have to choose what they can afford, eg a slightly lower valued property.
I don’t go shopping and say to an assistant I want to buy that dress but at this price because I haven’t had the pay rise I deserve, I choose a dress I can afford!

the reality is perhaps fewer buyers, that’s a totally different argument.

It's a balance in reality. If no one is buying the expensive dresses, they get reduced in the sale and more buyers will be tempted at the lower price! The same thing happens to the houses that aren't selling, apart from some unrealistic sellers who don't actually need to sell.

rainingsnoring · 18/08/2026 07:39

Tortephant · 17/08/2026 16:11

Some always have and will. Others are still achieving over their asking price, and this will always happen.

As for people dropping prices all over the place, a lot have out mortgaged themselves so NEED to sell quickly and so will lower the asking price to bail out or over extending themselves. That comes back to buying what you can afford.

You seemed to have confirmed Keep Pumping's point. If the over stretched sellers now need to sell, they will lower their prices!

rainingsnoring · 18/08/2026 07:41

paddleboardingmum · 17/08/2026 17:57

Houses don’t “need to get less expensive” buyers have to choose what they can afford, eg a slightly lower valued property.
I don’t go shopping and say to an assistant I want to buy that dress but at this price because I haven’t had the pay rise I deserve, I choose a dress I can afford!

It's not really like that though- more like if you wanted to sell a dress on vinted and want 1k for it. People are only offering you £500 max. You can either take the £500 or not sell it.

Exactly. It's a balance. The unrealistic sellers just don't sell. Those sellers who will accept whatever the buyers will pay make the market.

WonderingWanda · 18/08/2026 07:48

foursquares · 13/08/2026 22:23

Thank you, that's helpful. I'm clearly trying to second guess sellers motivation. It hasn't been reduced yet.

From what I've read, sellers should consider price cuts at 3 month mark.

Rightly or wrongly, I thought i may need to be aggressive on offering on a newly listed property that quickly get multiple offers, but have more scope on those that have sat around for a while, without offers.

Some sellers will move on price but probably not that quickly and some won't at all regardless of whether their house is over priced.

You've offered and they've rejected your offer. Can you afford to offer any more? If not walk away but tell the estate agent your offer still stands. If it doesn't sell at some point they might drop the price and you can reconsider.

If you can afford to offer a bit more and you really want it go back with a counter offer and see what they say, maybe 230k.

foursquares · 18/08/2026 12:18

Tortephant · 15/08/2026 07:31

Why?

Thought that was right thing to do. Homebuyers survey to assess property condition, and RICS to get assessment of value. Again, new to this.

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foursquares · 18/08/2026 12:19

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foursquares · 18/08/2026 12:23

Seeingadistance · 15/08/2026 08:39

Yeah, I don't think I could be bothered selling to you as you sound like you'd be a real pain in the arse throughout the process.

You've been told what the sellers are looking for. Either give them that or go elsewhere.

😂 Guess you don't like facts and logic...

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foursquares · 18/08/2026 12:31

foursquares · 13/08/2026 21:58

Hi. First time buyer, appreciate some advice.

Saw a property we like, listed for £450k. It's been on the market just under 3 months. It's had one offer in first week, which was rejected by seller - I don't know amount.

We've recently offered £423k (6% under asking), which was rejected. According to agenct, seller looking for close to asking price.

Given that it's been on for a while, we're in a buyers market, and heading into post-summer period...couple of queries :

  1. The asking price is overpriced right?
  2. How should I approach negotiations?

Thanks in advance.

Sadly inheritance..

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Tortephant · 18/08/2026 12:33

foursquares · 18/08/2026 12:18

Thought that was right thing to do. Homebuyers survey to assess property condition, and RICS to get assessment of value. Again, new to this.

Well you are a cash buyer so no you don’t need a survey, and you know better than everyone else anyway so you’d just be paying a surveyor so you have somebody to criticise. That’s not a good use of funds.

another valuation, your just wasting money now. Are you happy to pay, the asking price, yes or no?

foursquares · 18/08/2026 12:40

WonderingWanda · 18/08/2026 07:48

Some sellers will move on price but probably not that quickly and some won't at all regardless of whether their house is over priced.

You've offered and they've rejected your offer. Can you afford to offer any more? If not walk away but tell the estate agent your offer still stands. If it doesn't sell at some point they might drop the price and you can reconsider.

If you can afford to offer a bit more and you really want it go back with a counter offer and see what they say, maybe 230k.

I've increased my offer to £433k (£10k increase), still waiting for response.

Also appreciate that nothing probably "needs" doing, as it's functioning (eg. bathroom is 20 years old), but just needs modernisating.

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KeepPumping · 18/08/2026 16:48

paddleboardingmum · 17/08/2026 17:57

Houses don’t “need to get less expensive” buyers have to choose what they can afford, eg a slightly lower valued property.
I don’t go shopping and say to an assistant I want to buy that dress but at this price because I haven’t had the pay rise I deserve, I choose a dress I can afford!

It's not really like that though- more like if you wanted to sell a dress on vinted and want 1k for it. People are only offering you £500 max. You can either take the £500 or not sell it.

Exactly, the idea that homeowners can bolt all the doors and keep their high house price in away from the nasty market outside is just fantasy thinking.

anyolddinosaur · 18/08/2026 17:02

You definitely need to get a survey. Not going to give examples but not getting one can be an expensive mistake.

KeepPumping · 18/08/2026 17:20

anyolddinosaur · 18/08/2026 17:02

You definitely need to get a survey. Not going to give examples but not getting one can be an expensive mistake.

Yep, definite mistake not to get one.

foursquares · 26/08/2026 12:28

Update: Negotiated and finally agreed on £435k a couple of days ago.

Thanks for helpful advice everyone.

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Sadteacher · 26/08/2026 12:33

That’s great, congratulations. Thanks for updating the thread with the outcome!

DrySherry · 26/08/2026 14:26

Great news, get a thorough survey done and then if there are any issues you can adjust your offer. If no issues - happy days. Well done for not just blindly paying asking.

senua · 26/08/2026 14:48

Well done. A successful negotiation is not about beating the other side, it's about both sides coming away happy.
Enjoy your new house.Smile

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