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How should negotiate on property purchase?

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foursquares · 13/08/2026 21:58

Hi. First time buyer, appreciate some advice.

Saw a property we like, listed for £450k. It's been on the market just under 3 months. It's had one offer in first week, which was rejected by seller - I don't know amount.

We've recently offered £423k (6% under asking), which was rejected. According to agenct, seller looking for close to asking price.

Given that it's been on for a while, we're in a buyers market, and heading into post-summer period...couple of queries :

  1. The asking price is overpriced right?
  2. How should I approach negotiations?

Thanks in advance.

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chirrupybird · 14/08/2026 14:42

foursquares · 13/08/2026 22:42

I thought most of the interest is generated in first few weeks weeks, where serious buyers notice a new property on market. After that isn't is just a trickle of 1-2 viewings a week?

Appreciate it's an emotive topic, and you may not want to respond, but appreciate a sellers viewpoint, so:

  1. If by late-Sept you haven't had a serious offer, then presumably the only option (assuming marketing is on point), is to reduce price to generate more interest right?
  2. Of course a buyer could come along that loves your property, but the longer it's on, the more buyers will feel they have leverage to negotiate right?

The above are just my assumptions, no offence intended.

In the first few weeks you often get the buyers that have been hanging around for a while who are pretty picky and are finding it difficult to find anything they like. In reverse as a new buyer you get given all the dogs that the EA can't sell.

RVectensian · 14/08/2026 14:54

foursquares · 14/08/2026 11:15

Mainly aesthetic, some areas look like haven't been updated in 15+ years. Plus, things like some pipes & electrics haven't been channelled into wall.

Tbh this is largely irrelevant. What you want to do, is very different to what NEEDS to be done. Their property will have been valued in accordance with it's current state.

Tortephant · 14/08/2026 14:58

foursquares · 14/08/2026 09:26

Again, that's helpful. I viewed 4 properties, and only made an offer on this property. I'm not in a mad rush to move, so if I can't actually get into property by Nov (getting increasingly unrealistic now) , thinking I'll pick search in spring.

Are you a serious buyer?

let me clarify: If you can’t find what you want in your time frame you’ll stop looking for a bit then start looking at photos again next year.

You never know when the right property for you will go for sale.
The more you view the more you will identify what’s important to you and also how to assess what you are happy to spend on what.
Photos and floor plans help, the reality is normally quite different to an actual viewing.

if you think you will look at photos every 6months for a few weeks at a time and buy a house that way, good luck.

foursquares · 14/08/2026 15:23

Tortephant · 14/08/2026 11:31

So you don't actually have any concept of what actually needs doing and what you'd like to do, or the cost of either.

I completely appreciate this is a first home purchase OP but two things stand out from your comments, one is a level of arrogance and that you know best (as a vendor that would put me off, you sound like you will make this a difficult transaction), and the others is more really having a grasp of finances, either purchase or ongoing.
Have you properly costed this out. By that I mean your purchase costs + house running costs, then when you know more add essential work and work that will need doing over the next few years.

Of course you want to pay as little as possible and they want to achieve as much as possible - that's how this works. At the same time you need to be realistic about the properties value, both to buy cold and also to you as an individual. You can make a low offer, cheeky offer, insulting offer, over the asking offer, but only if you understand what you are doing and why.

Please go and view a lot of properties, that's my best recommendation for you to get a true feel for both this points.
Then you can genuinely negotiate by saying things like: My best and final offer is xxxx that's based upon ..... then you will be taken seriously. Choosing a number you like without any justification won't.
Just because a property needs, in your eyes, some renovations, doesn't necessarily mean it does. A house will have been valued for its current condition, not a theoretical 'if' price. So taking x off the asking price because thats what you think you need to spend is rude.

Don't get so frustrated, bad for your blood pressure. It's simply a financial transaction with nuances. If a seller has a genuine floor price, they could have put 'offers over'. The fact that they didnt means it's open to interpretation.

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foursquares · 14/08/2026 15:40

TheGirlattheBack · 14/08/2026 14:18

Yes I agree you negotiate with a buyer but a blanket reduction is not going to snag a non existent buyer in a slow market so it’s not the sensible choice.

We only have the OP’s say so that the house is overpriced.

If you refer back to the original post, I posed the question "is this overpriced? ".

I think still think it is based on data, not emotion..price is determined by the demand at a price point. 3 months in with no offers suggests very little interest at that price point.

One could reasonably argue that 3 months, especially including summer period, doesn't allow you to gauge demand accurately. But at a certain point in time (5, 6, 7 months, etc), it's overpriced. Remember everything sells as right price.

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foursquares · 14/08/2026 15:43

Thanks everyone. Appreciate you taking time to share your experiences and advice. I'll update on what happens 😀

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lemonts · 14/08/2026 18:23

foursquares · 14/08/2026 15:23

Don't get so frustrated, bad for your blood pressure. It's simply a financial transaction with nuances. If a seller has a genuine floor price, they could have put 'offers over'. The fact that they didnt means it's open to interpretation.

Yeah, you really really don't get it, but as another poster pointed out, you are arrogant enough to think you have it figured out. I have sold many many properties and in all cases the buyer not being a twat was far more important to me than the final headline figure. Transactions fall through all the time and they are generally the ones where the buyer is trying to pay as little as possible and the seller is trying to get as much as possible. Succesful transactions are often a lot more nuanced.

RVectensian · 14/08/2026 18:52

I'm always impressed at being told how things work by someone who has never done it before, I admire their chutzpah.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 14/08/2026 19:56

I think there’s some sense in what the op says but if a buyer is not going to negotiate, they aren’t. Another thread recently highlighted a DH steadfastly attached to a valuation so a buyer walked away. This seller might be similar and not aware of trends or just demanding the price they want. Negotiation is normal but if one party won’t, then it doesn’t happen.

@foursquares The key info is sold prices elsewhere. This determines if the price is in the right ball park. It might be too high as it has no offers but you don’t know what’s putting others off and it might not be price. Could be all sorts of things. So don’t get hung up on 3 months. Go to your max and no more. If they don’t take it, look for somewhere else. You have tried. Often buyers make excuses when they pull out but often it’s a bad survey or money not available. People are not always genuine with excuses either. So offer what’s reasonable and walk away if they won’t budge.

PancakeCloud · 14/08/2026 20:09

The seller might not be that motivated to sell. The price may already be competitive.

harriethoyle · 14/08/2026 20:12

foursquares · 14/08/2026 15:23

Don't get so frustrated, bad for your blood pressure. It's simply a financial transaction with nuances. If a seller has a genuine floor price, they could have put 'offers over'. The fact that they didnt means it's open to interpretation.

Love it. With one response, you prove everything @Tortephant was saying 😂🙈

foursquares · 14/08/2026 20:16

lemonts · 14/08/2026 18:23

Yeah, you really really don't get it, but as another poster pointed out, you are arrogant enough to think you have it figured out. I have sold many many properties and in all cases the buyer not being a twat was far more important to me than the final headline figure. Transactions fall through all the time and they are generally the ones where the buyer is trying to pay as little as possible and the seller is trying to get as much as possible. Succesful transactions are often a lot more nuanced.

That's very noble of you. Thanks for the heads up. 🙄

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foursquares · 14/08/2026 20:21

harriethoyle · 14/08/2026 20:12

Love it. With one response, you prove everything @Tortephant was saying 😂🙈

Yes Harriet. Perhaps take 15 seconds to read the response. Being called "arrogant" for having a different (perhaps incorrect) viewpoint is uncalled for..

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harriethoyle · 14/08/2026 20:47

foursquares · 14/08/2026 20:21

Yes Harriet. Perhaps take 15 seconds to read the response. Being called "arrogant" for having a different (perhaps incorrect) viewpoint is uncalled for..

And again!! You’re a doozy 🤣

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 14/08/2026 21:01

@harriethoyle offers over is a normal selling position. The op is correct. It’s often for homes with an uncertain value but the seller usually has a floor price. When a general price is quoted, most buyers expect some negotiation. Personally I just want the money! As long as the buyer has it , fine. I’m not expecting them to be wonderful and meeting my expectations in every way. The op should try a higher offer if the market suggests she should. If it’s definitely highly priced, consider what should be offered to make it viable.

foursquares · 14/08/2026 21:11

harriethoyle · 14/08/2026 20:47

And again!! You’re a doozy 🤣

..and you were clearly in the toilet when God was giving out the brains. On that note, let's part ways. 😉

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harriethoyle · 14/08/2026 21:18

foursquares · 14/08/2026 21:11

..and you were clearly in the toilet when God was giving out the brains. On that note, let's part ways. 😉

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Amazing. The OP who keeps on giving 🤣 Personal insults are never a good look 👌🏻

Tortephant · 14/08/2026 21:23

harriethoyle · 14/08/2026 20:47

And again!! You’re a doozy 🤣

@foursquares the point is that you asked for advice and then have proceeded to tell everyone that’s offering it that you know better and there is a very black and white way to buy a house. TBH you lost me when you said if you couldn’t move in by November you’d stop looking until the spring. I assume this is a goady post rather than genuine.

BingAndFlop400 · 14/08/2026 22:24

Can’t wait until a sellers market returns, because it will! It always does.

lovelycattus · 14/08/2026 23:11

You do realise the vendor has probably had 3 estate agents around to value before plumping for one ? In my experience most valuations are similar so just a question of picking an EA to engage.
Why do you think you know more than the EA?
Your wants aren’t the same as needs. Either pay the price or move on. If I was the seller of this house, I would refuse to sell to you on principle. . You sound unhinged.

KeepPumping · 14/08/2026 23:44

foursquares · 13/08/2026 21:58

Hi. First time buyer, appreciate some advice.

Saw a property we like, listed for £450k. It's been on the market just under 3 months. It's had one offer in first week, which was rejected by seller - I don't know amount.

We've recently offered £423k (6% under asking), which was rejected. According to agenct, seller looking for close to asking price.

Given that it's been on for a while, we're in a buyers market, and heading into post-summer period...couple of queries :

  1. The asking price is overpriced right?
  2. How should I approach negotiations?

Thanks in advance.

We are nowhere near a buyers market so are you prepared to lose money if interest rates go up? Are you paying cash, otherwise a mortgage lender will tell you how much it is worth.

KeepPumping · 14/08/2026 23:46

lovelycattus · 14/08/2026 23:11

You do realise the vendor has probably had 3 estate agents around to value before plumping for one ? In my experience most valuations are similar so just a question of picking an EA to engage.
Why do you think you know more than the EA?
Your wants aren’t the same as needs. Either pay the price or move on. If I was the seller of this house, I would refuse to sell to you on principle. . You sound unhinged.

An EA valuation is as meaningless as an asking price, the only valuation that counts is how much the buyer wants to pay or how much their mortgage lender wants to lend.

foursquares · 15/08/2026 01:44

lovelycattus · 14/08/2026 23:11

You do realise the vendor has probably had 3 estate agents around to value before plumping for one ? In my experience most valuations are similar so just a question of picking an EA to engage.
Why do you think you know more than the EA?
Your wants aren’t the same as needs. Either pay the price or move on. If I was the seller of this house, I would refuse to sell to you on principle. . You sound unhinged.

Great advice lovely cactus...

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foursquares · 15/08/2026 01:49

KeepPumping · 14/08/2026 23:44

We are nowhere near a buyers market so are you prepared to lose money if interest rates go up? Are you paying cash, otherwise a mortgage lender will tell you how much it is worth.

Yes, am paying cash, but was planning to get homebuyers survey and separate RICS valuation.

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foursquares · 15/08/2026 01:55

Tortephant · 14/08/2026 21:23

@foursquares the point is that you asked for advice and then have proceeded to tell everyone that’s offering it that you know better and there is a very black and white way to buy a house. TBH you lost me when you said if you couldn’t move in by November you’d stop looking until the spring. I assume this is a goady post rather than genuine.

Wasn't intended as a goady post, but didn't anticipate "frustrated", "angry" or "angry" comments from those who feels their properties has been slighted from potential buyers in past..

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