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Buyer wants £8k off parents' London flat just before exchange

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LondonSeller · 06/06/2026 09:24

Parents flat for sale as they passed away in london - Took 18 months to get probate sorted out but finally got it - Property listed with agents and it is in dated ocndition and needs work - Also has a 70 year lease. EA told us not an easy market

After five weeks advertising price agreed at 500K which was a bit lower then we had hope for but EA told us buyer is known to them and this would be very quick sale

Was meant to exchange on Friday and EA has come back and said buyer is ready to exchange, has sent deposit monies to his solicitors but wants a reduction of 8K. EA has said this is less than a 2% drop so not massive and believes we wont get better if we reject the offer

Buyer is cash purchaser investor so quite rare and I worry that if I dont accept property will be stuck for months for anothr cash buyer who might offer lower.

I live in Scotland and the flat is in London so I am miles away - Paid to have the place emptied and solicitor fees so am already down. By contrast buyer has not paid anything other than a few hundred for solicitor fees - No mortgage, no survey fees nothing

Whats the best angle here - Call buyers bluff and risk losing the sale or take the money and run. Feel quite cross as this money was going to be used for real stuff and to clear debts

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ThreadGuardDog · 08/06/2026 09:46

BIossomtoes · 08/06/2026 07:30

Immoral is the word I’d use. I hope karma bites people doing this and getting away with it on the arse.

I’ve no idea why this poster thinks it’s a normal part of the negotiating process. It’s not, it’s a dirty trick pulled by selfish and entitled people. By exchange all participants in the chain have negotiated their sale prices and offered on their next properties based on those prices. A sudden and substantial reduction at the eleventh hour can collapse a whole chain if the seller is unable to proceed with their own purchase because they have been left short of funds.

BIossomtoes · 08/06/2026 09:53

ThreadGuardDog · 08/06/2026 09:37

I’ve bought and sold several houses in the last ten years. I’ve had this done to me once, said no and meant it. The buyer kept reducing their demand bit by bit until I told the EA that if the contracts weren’t exchanged on time with no further reduction I would pull out of the sale myself. The buyer backed off and the sale proceeded. The normal negotiating process takes place at the start when the sale is agreed. Any further reductions are negotiated as a result of issues flagged up on the survey. It’s not part of the normal negotiating process to wait until exchange and then threaten to derail every sale in the chain if you don’t get what you want. And doing it because you know you’re putting the seller is in a difficult position if they refuse isn’t something to be proud of. The sooner we reform property sales in England and Wales to something similar to that in Scotland, the better.

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I did exactly the same. It was an inexperienced first time buyer who was advised to do it by his solicitor, he tried it on the day before exchange. He had an expiring mortgage offer and had paid for a whole plethora of additional surveys so was in a weak position. He was told a firm no and that was the end of it.

That situation is completely different from selling a London flat in a depressed market with no onward purchase dependent on the sale.

ThreadGuardDog · 08/06/2026 09:54

abbynabby23 · 08/06/2026 09:44

Things happen. We once made an offer on a property, completed the surveys, and were progressing with the purchase when, at the last minute, we found another property we preferred and pulled out. The seller even offered to reduce the price, but it didn’t matter because we liked the other property more.

On the flip side, we were selling our own property and were close to exchanging contracts when we decided to keep it for personal reasons.

Until contracts are exchanged, neither side is committed. Life happens, circumstances change, and sometimes people simply make different decisions.

You sound like the worst nightmare of both buyer and seller to be honest.

Ginmonkeyagain · 08/06/2026 10:31

There is a middle way. No one owes their buyer or seller anything IMO, except honesty and courtesy.

Sellers have a price they want to achieve but buyers are not duty bound to offer it and vice versa. But there is plenty of emotional blackmail on all sides with property - the trick is to keep a clear head.

I remember when we were flat hunting in London we offered £8K below the asking price on one as we thought there would need to be around that in works that needed to be carried out in the immediate future. The estate agent came back with some outraged story from the vendor about how they needed the full asking price to complete their onward purchase and our offer was insulting - I mean why should I give a fuck about that - all they needed to say was they did not accept our offer.

What I would not do it lead someone right up to exchange and suddenly drop the offer - UNLESS - something significant and expensive came to light that the vendor had withheld.

LivingLounge · 08/06/2026 10:38

@abbynabby23 I’m no stranger to selling and buying. All your ‘things happen’ stories involve you being a flake and withdrawing from sales or buying, or gazundering, not these things happening to you. And that’s because most people tend not to be so selfish as to lose other people time and money because of their whims and greed.

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I'd confront the agent before making any decisions if the reduction is due to a lease

Ramburg · 08/06/2026 15:36

Any mistakes OP made were in negotiating the price down from 600 to 500 in repeatedly huge chucks - the final £8k is irrelevant given the giveaway early doors.

Slartibartslow · 08/06/2026 17:07

i think it’s a bit spineless to advise you to fold like a house of cards and take the hit.
Advice like this is exactly why people try this on at the last minute.
Tell the cheeky cunt to fuck right off.
Of course the estate agent would try the “it’s only 2% so you should accept it etc” line. Assuming 1% commission then 2% of that is only £100 to them. They just want their £4900

BIossomtoes · 08/06/2026 18:33

Someone else who doesn’t understand the state of the housing market. 🙄

Ramburg · 08/06/2026 18:34

Slartibartslow · 08/06/2026 17:07

i think it’s a bit spineless to advise you to fold like a house of cards and take the hit.
Advice like this is exactly why people try this on at the last minute.
Tell the cheeky cunt to fuck right off.
Of course the estate agent would try the “it’s only 2% so you should accept it etc” line. Assuming 1% commission then 2% of that is only £100 to them. They just want their £4900

But in total it’s not 2% - it’s 18% erosion from the asking price - in at least 3 chunks.

KatiePricesKnickers · 08/06/2026 18:39

Ramburg · 08/06/2026 18:34

But in total it’s not 2% - it’s 18% erosion from the asking price - in at least 3 chunks.

The asking price was wildly optimistic.

LondonSeller · 08/06/2026 22:02

I took the 8k cut and contracts exchanged!!!!! - completion in one month so its all done - The market is apparently really really bad in london with nothing selling and lots of sales falling through. I did call a few agents and they all said very slow market and if you want to sell it has to be priced really well so that did it for me

For anyone else selling I wish you luck in london - It was difficult - Now I can enjoy how to spend it and live a more normal life

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GlobalTravellerbutespeciallyBognor · 08/06/2026 22:08

Huge congratulations, OP.
Delighted for you!

CrazyWeather · 08/06/2026 22:09

Good decision!!

I hope it all goes smoothly for you.🌷

BIossomtoes · 08/06/2026 22:10

Very sensible. Sometimes pragmatism trumps principle and this is one of those times.

Tabarnak · 08/06/2026 22:10

I’m glad it’s sorted OP.

DogAnxiety · 08/06/2026 22:11

I’d accept the £8k off and then leave some little “surprises” for them in the property. Things that will
make it more difficult for them to rent it out, or which will make it less appealing to tenants ;)

BunnyLake · 09/06/2026 08:59

DogAnxiety · 08/06/2026 22:11

I’d accept the £8k off and then leave some little “surprises” for them in the property. Things that will
make it more difficult for them to rent it out, or which will make it less appealing to tenants ;)

Why? Why not just draw a line under it and move on.

thepariscrimefiles · 09/06/2026 10:19

DogAnxiety · 08/06/2026 22:11

I’d accept the £8k off and then leave some little “surprises” for them in the property. Things that will
make it more difficult for them to rent it out, or which will make it less appealing to tenants ;)

How juvenile and probably illegal.

Advocodo · 09/06/2026 10:45

You did the right thing! £8k is not a lot of money in the grand scheme of things compared to the stress of loosing a sale in this difficult market. The completed funds will soon make that in interest in a few months.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/06/2026 11:07

Good news OP, I hope you can now move on. You must feel a huge weight has lifted.

CointreauVersial · 09/06/2026 11:15

Right decision, OP. Well done.

sweetpickle2 · 09/06/2026 11:22

As someone who sold a flat in London a couple of years ago- bite their hand off and get it sold.

Edited just seen you did! Well done.

KeepPumping · 09/06/2026 20:29

KatiePricesKnickers · 08/06/2026 18:39

The asking price was wildly optimistic.

Yes, that gets called out straight away in this market.

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