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Buyer wants £8k off parents' London flat just before exchange

693 replies

LondonSeller · 06/06/2026 09:24

Parents flat for sale as they passed away in london - Took 18 months to get probate sorted out but finally got it - Property listed with agents and it is in dated ocndition and needs work - Also has a 70 year lease. EA told us not an easy market

After five weeks advertising price agreed at 500K which was a bit lower then we had hope for but EA told us buyer is known to them and this would be very quick sale

Was meant to exchange on Friday and EA has come back and said buyer is ready to exchange, has sent deposit monies to his solicitors but wants a reduction of 8K. EA has said this is less than a 2% drop so not massive and believes we wont get better if we reject the offer

Buyer is cash purchaser investor so quite rare and I worry that if I dont accept property will be stuck for months for anothr cash buyer who might offer lower.

I live in Scotland and the flat is in London so I am miles away - Paid to have the place emptied and solicitor fees so am already down. By contrast buyer has not paid anything other than a few hundred for solicitor fees - No mortgage, no survey fees nothing

Whats the best angle here - Call buyers bluff and risk losing the sale or take the money and run. Feel quite cross as this money was going to be used for real stuff and to clear debts

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daleylama · 07/06/2026 02:58

ilikeachallenge · 06/06/2026 09:25

I would take it.

A short lease is a nightmare and will cost the buyer an absolute fortune to rectify.

The short lease will have already been priced in and is why they have to settle with cash buyers...who will probably be professional investors.

KingMungBean · 07/06/2026 05:04

LondonSeller · 06/06/2026 21:30

That 8K number was real clever of the buyer - If it had been 10K I woul dhave said no - If he asks for more off on monday its straight no and I will put in auction and take whatever it gets in the auction even if less

OP there is a strong likelihood if you put it to auction the same developer will buy it but for even less! They obviously want to buy it either to convert the house back or for other reasons. Agree to an exchange deadline for Monday so there’s no more funny business.

Chickadee001 · 07/06/2026 05:56

Gettingbysomehow · 06/06/2026 09:25

Its a common dirty trick. Say no and mean no.

But she risks it taking ANOTHER 18 mths to find a buyer....! As stated it needs a lot of work done to it AND it has a short lease!
Personally I'd accept it and hope the new buyer's crotch gets infested with the fleas of 1000 camels...! Karma is wonderful 😆

Roselilly36 · 07/06/2026 06:56

Coco1379 · 06/06/2026 21:28

‘Estate Agent knows buyer,,,’ That would ring alarm bells to me. The EA is acting for you, not the buyer.

In my experience EA act for you until the buyer comes along, then all they want to do is keep the chain together to get their commission. The difference in commission for the agent in a vendor dropping 8k is negligible.

We had a similar situation when we last sold, 2021, more expensive property than OP’s, our buyers wanted us to drop our price after survey, we said no, the buyers really, really wanted our house and went ahead at the price we agreed. But the agent seemed very annoyed with us, left us waiting for our buyers decision etc.

I think the OP has made the right decision in this market, as soon I as read, flat in London, I thought take their money.

Ginmonkeyagain · 07/06/2026 08:23

Loving the huffing about estate agents. Anyone who has bought or sold in London knows London estate agents are absolutely feral. You price that in, watch them like hawks and don't trust the fuckers as far as you can throw them.

stichguru · 07/06/2026 08:30

Papster · 06/06/2026 21:06

The poster stichguru is clearly not well informed (being polite), as you suggest

You need 1.2 mill minimum for a 4 bed house in Dulwich

I know nothing about house prices in Dulwich. I do know that whatever price you think you can get for a house, you can't ever get more than £0 unless you find a real buyer who thinks your house is worth more than that to them. Ultimately house prices in the area/of the street/of the house next door are irrelevant unless you have a buyer willing to pay.

TheyGrewUp · 07/06/2026 08:35

Ginmonkeyagain · 07/06/2026 08:23

Loving the huffing about estate agents. Anyone who has bought or sold in London knows London estate agents are absolutely feral. You price that in, watch them like hawks and don't trust the fuckers as far as you can throw them.

I think it depends who you deal with.

Piglet89 · 07/06/2026 09:11

CoffeeAndCats3 · 06/06/2026 23:38

I'd find it hard to stomach as well, but I'd accept it and move on with your life up in Scotland.

It's all just too hard and stressful otherwise, given your situation, location and the market.

The buying and selling process in England really needs to change. A buyer would not be able to get away with this where I am in Australia - you put a 10% non refundable deposit down when you have your offer accepted, and the rest on exchange. The contracts is binding and if you drop out, you lose your deposit. There is no dicking around with the price, after it is agreed and in the contract.

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Exactly. In policy terms, this is not difficult to fix and the shitshow it is ATM has a huge negative effect on many citizens’ lives during the most expensive transaction of their lives.

But the UK Government hasn’t had time to focus on such important domestic policy issues, in part because so much legislative time was sucked up dealing with the Brexit fallout.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 07/06/2026 10:11

CoffeeAndCats3 · 06/06/2026 23:38

I'd find it hard to stomach as well, but I'd accept it and move on with your life up in Scotland.

It's all just too hard and stressful otherwise, given your situation, location and the market.

The buying and selling process in England really needs to change. A buyer would not be able to get away with this where I am in Australia - you put a 10% non refundable deposit down when you have your offer accepted, and the rest on exchange. The contracts is binding and if you drop out, you lose your deposit. There is no dicking around with the price, after it is agreed and in the contract.

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That sounds good, but what happens if something bad is discovered in the survey? Does the buyer lose their 10% deposit?

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:14

IMustDoMoreExercise · 07/06/2026 10:11

That sounds good, but what happens if something bad is discovered in the survey? Does the buyer lose their 10% deposit?

Presumably you have the survey before you pay the deposit.

delicioussoo · 07/06/2026 10:16

I would accept it. It’s likely to be on the market for months or years otherwise.

PeoplesNet · 07/06/2026 10:17

LondonSeller · 06/06/2026 09:24

Parents flat for sale as they passed away in london - Took 18 months to get probate sorted out but finally got it - Property listed with agents and it is in dated ocndition and needs work - Also has a 70 year lease. EA told us not an easy market

After five weeks advertising price agreed at 500K which was a bit lower then we had hope for but EA told us buyer is known to them and this would be very quick sale

Was meant to exchange on Friday and EA has come back and said buyer is ready to exchange, has sent deposit monies to his solicitors but wants a reduction of 8K. EA has said this is less than a 2% drop so not massive and believes we wont get better if we reject the offer

Buyer is cash purchaser investor so quite rare and I worry that if I dont accept property will be stuck for months for anothr cash buyer who might offer lower.

I live in Scotland and the flat is in London so I am miles away - Paid to have the place emptied and solicitor fees so am already down. By contrast buyer has not paid anything other than a few hundred for solicitor fees - No mortgage, no survey fees nothing

Whats the best angle here - Call buyers bluff and risk losing the sale or take the money and run. Feel quite cross as this money was going to be used for real stuff and to clear debts

Take your solicitor's/ agent's advice. But as you're asking for opinions.. I'd demand 8k more and tell them each day they don't accept, it's going up by another 1k. If we want this behaviour to stop, we have to act and that might mean making sacrifices.

Don't buy from ticket scalpers and don't sell to gazunders.

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:21

PeoplesNet · 07/06/2026 10:17

Take your solicitor's/ agent's advice. But as you're asking for opinions.. I'd demand 8k more and tell them each day they don't accept, it's going up by another 1k. If we want this behaviour to stop, we have to act and that might mean making sacrifices.

Don't buy from ticket scalpers and don't sell to gazunders.

She’s taking the £8k reduction because she wants shot of the flat. Your suggestion wouldn’t work in a sellers’ market, let alone the current buyers’ market.

aurpod1980 · 07/06/2026 10:51

To say my friend tried to sell his flat in the Barbican for two years and didn’t sell and renting now… (had to pay to extend lease etc). That was his ‘pension’. Really not worth holding onto it.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 07/06/2026 11:00

Papster · 06/06/2026 23:58

It is fraudulent and illegal.
The Property Ombudsman would act
But would need to be proveable

Again, the Ombudsman is largely funded by subs from EAs themselves, which creates an obvious conflict of interests

Since this all involves the largest purchase most will ever make you'd think proper legislation would be a priority, but sadly not

Aluna · 07/06/2026 11:03

LondonSeller · 06/06/2026 21:21

Wow went out for the day and came back to this! I ve decided to get rid of it - I did know it was going to the freeholder who owns upstairs and they have a sale agreed for the whole house but its not certain and I cant hang around because if the house sale falls through then the offer to buy my flat will fall through

Have emailed solicitor to say 8K accepted but must sign monday by 5PM otherwise listing with other agent

The buyer probably will make 50K profit from this but I dont have the knowledge to extend the lease and deal with it all neither the funds and the mortgage has not been paid in over a year so waiting another year for a lease extension is going to kill me

My mind is made up

The buyer will make a lot more than 50k. If the freeholder owns the flat above they probably owned the house for a long time.

And the freeholder’s buyer will turn a good profit too. Buy for 1.2ish, renovate and sell for 1.6-1.9.

But you actually got a good price for it in the current market. And cash massively reduces the stress.

Snakebite61 · 07/06/2026 11:08

LondonSeller · 06/06/2026 09:24

Parents flat for sale as they passed away in london - Took 18 months to get probate sorted out but finally got it - Property listed with agents and it is in dated ocndition and needs work - Also has a 70 year lease. EA told us not an easy market

After five weeks advertising price agreed at 500K which was a bit lower then we had hope for but EA told us buyer is known to them and this would be very quick sale

Was meant to exchange on Friday and EA has come back and said buyer is ready to exchange, has sent deposit monies to his solicitors but wants a reduction of 8K. EA has said this is less than a 2% drop so not massive and believes we wont get better if we reject the offer

Buyer is cash purchaser investor so quite rare and I worry that if I dont accept property will be stuck for months for anothr cash buyer who might offer lower.

I live in Scotland and the flat is in London so I am miles away - Paid to have the place emptied and solicitor fees so am already down. By contrast buyer has not paid anything other than a few hundred for solicitor fees - No mortgage, no survey fees nothing

Whats the best angle here - Call buyers bluff and risk losing the sale or take the money and run. Feel quite cross as this money was going to be used for real stuff and to clear debts

Definitely take. That lease is terrible. Where is it? Mayfair?

SixtySomething · 07/06/2026 11:24

DreadRess · 06/06/2026 22:20

The £8k is the bung to the EA who knows the buyer and gave the buyer the nod in the first place about the sale. The buyer uses the £8k to say thank you to the EA, and find me another in six months time. That’s how the business works for regular buyers in a given area.

So you’re saying that Winkworths accept bribes? That’s a big accusation and personally I would want specific evidence of wrongdoing before making such comments. What are your grounds for making this claim?

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 11:28

Snakebite61 · 07/06/2026 11:08

Definitely take. That lease is terrible. Where is it? Mayfair?

Mayfair for £500k ?

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 11:29

SixtySomething · 07/06/2026 11:24

So you’re saying that Winkworths accept bribes? That’s a big accusation and personally I would want specific evidence of wrongdoing before making such comments. What are your grounds for making this claim?

An EA in our area was found to be doing this very thing. If I were OP I would want to know on what basis the buyer was asking for £8k reduction, given that the asking price had already been reduced by £75k.

CoffeeAndCats3 · 07/06/2026 11:30

IMustDoMoreExercise · 07/06/2026 10:11

That sounds good, but what happens if something bad is discovered in the survey? Does the buyer lose their 10% deposit?

You have to have a survey done prior to offering or prior to the auction. Things move very quickly here. When I bought a place, it was listed for 4 weeks prior to auction. I inspected a few times and had a survey done (no major concerns flagged). I bought at auction and then settled 6 weeks later (a standard timeframe) and moved in the next day.

Ginmonkeyagain · 07/06/2026 11:44

I wouldn't get hung up on how much money your buyer could be making down the line.

Your goal is is get rid of your parent's flat, pay off the debts their estate owes and inherit what is left. Focus on that.

SixtySomething · 07/06/2026 11:56

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 11:29

An EA in our area was found to be doing this very thing. If I were OP I would want to know on what basis the buyer was asking for £8k reduction, given that the asking price had already been reduced by £75k.

But that doesn’t mean Winkworths are doing this. I’m unconnected with them but it is illegal!

DreadRess · 07/06/2026 12:24

SixtySomething · 07/06/2026 11:24

So you’re saying that Winkworths accept bribes? That’s a big accusation and personally I would want specific evidence of wrongdoing before making such comments. What are your grounds for making this claim?

I didn’t say that, you did.

I explained how part of the generic property purchase cycle works in London for developers who regularly buy.

I know because I was one of many who participated in it three decades ago.

Hibernating17 · 07/06/2026 12:33

The freeholder needs your flat to progress with his plans. The agent needs their commission from your flat and the house. This puts you in quite a strong position OP, far more than if you were selling to a random. I wouldn't roll over immediately without an attempt at a pushback.