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Going to view a house today that I want badly !

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skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 06:31

Gorgeous 1930s detached house, needs alot of modernising, huge garden, big drive and garage. It's on a main road into town but all the houses on this road are the same and just so lovely to look at.
We are not on the market yet but plan to get the same estate agents to list us asap. We need to move, we've outgrew this house in the last two years.
They want £450k. It was reduced in October.
Feedback has been the main road putting people off and also the work that will need doing.
How can we up our chances ?
We can probably go upto £430k but that would be the maximum.

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canyon2000 · 12/03/2025 13:17

skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 13:14

Really ?

Yes. There is no way it is worth paying the asking price. It's just not worth as much as they want, which is why it hasn't sold yet.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/03/2025 13:19

So that larger, massively improved one sold for £475k and they're asking a mere £25k less for this???

Hardly surprising it remains unsold, and on reflection my suggestion of starting at £400k was almost certainly too high; offer that and far from moaning you've not yet sold the agent will probably buy you dinner Hmm

And if the daughters are involved I wonder if they're pushing mum to ask a crazy price because they're trying to recoup something after her care costs ...

Scottishgirl85 · 12/03/2025 13:20

Post a link OP, it's publicly advertised :-)

ItisIbeserk · 12/03/2025 13:20

OP, what you're describing is easily 100k worth of work, very likely more, especially now.

Blogswife · 12/03/2025 13:22

skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 08:34

Thank you so much for all comments, realistic and wishing us luck.
I'm a natural worrier, I'm autistic and this makes me get things stuck in my head, I overthink so much and can really get myself worked up.
So I'm trying to go into this as, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't well then there was no harm in looking/trying. What will be will be kind of mindset. But I really want that house !! But yes, let's look inside.

I could see us living there. It is a home. And yes work would need doing, but isn't that part of the fun ? I say fun lightly 😆

Did anyone ever just know when they walked into a house that it was THE one ?

DH made an appointment to view a house in a location that I wouldn’t normally consider .
By the time he’d told me about the viewing it was too late to cancel ,
I walked through the door and instantly fell in love with the house. We put the offer in as we were walking back to the car
8 years later we are still so happy with our decision & the location proved not to be an issue at all
Good luck Op. I hope you sell your home quickly and that your offer is accepted

mumofbun · 12/03/2025 13:23

skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 11:40

So we've been and seen it, and I fucking love it. I knew I would but I was just giddy walking around. There is so much original character, nothing major has been done. Stain glass windows at the top of the bays, original doors, cute little random widows and doors. Original flooring in the hallway.
The vendor was there, she's late 80's and so so lovely, she really liked us and said she really hopes to see us again. We've decided we want to offer.
They have a house ready to go, so I think they're just waiting for the right buyer. She liked the fact we have two young girls, that was the same as them 55 years ago !

This is great, hopefully the owner being there is a massive positive - it helped us being shown round by the owner as they wanted it to be a family home!

ItisIbeserk · 12/03/2025 13:24

Have a look at other nearby sold houses to see if any other non-extended/renovated ones have sold recently. That might give you a better comparison than the one right next door.

Crojo · 12/03/2025 13:29

I would see if you can find a tradesman to attend a viewing with you. Get the work priced up, then you can properly negotiate the price based on that.

TwentyTwentyFive · 12/03/2025 13:36

ItisIbeserk · 12/03/2025 13:20

OP, what you're describing is easily 100k worth of work, very likely more, especially now.

Agreed. I'm pleased you loved the house but honestly from what you've said this house will need an excessive amount of work and even offering 400k would be too much for it in its current state.

I feel like I'm being very pessimistic and I don't want you to think I'm trying to rain on your happiness. However, it really doesn't sound like they will let the house go for what it's actually worth (probably closer to 350k if I'm honest) and the sheer quantity of work it will need if it's not been updated is probably going to difficult to comprehend.

ItisIbeserk · 12/03/2025 14:07

I’m mentioning the cost not because I think you need to do the same, but because it’s a massive factor in the value of next door and therefore makes it a useless comparator.

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:10

TennisLady · 12/03/2025 10:32

This is the way it happens in the NE England at least!

@TennisLady

so you put your property on the market in NE England and erect a FOR SALE board outside

Someone who hasn’t had an offer accepted on their property , perhaps hasn’t even listed it, makes an offer.

and as soon as that offer is accepted, down goes the board and up goes “SOLD” and in very small letter stc at the bottom.

Really? That just doesn’t seem…. Correct

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:13

marena1 · 12/03/2025 10:15

I've asked before and I will ask again, why does the UK have "chains". Pretty much the rest of the world gets on fine with out "chains. It's almost like you are trying to make your life difficult!
Thnk of it like this you want to sell your car, you do. You take that money and buy another car,or not whatever you want.
That is how the whole world works with real estate too.
For example : here's my house for sale for 500k. Someone says yes I'll but it, you exchange and settlement is done, The person who bought your house owns it now and you have 500k to do whatever you want with.

Why the obsession with chains?

You have asked before and will ask again @marena1

because it is a very odd question.

i have lived in 3 countries…. All of which have a chain structure built in to the house buying process

Nessastats · 12/03/2025 14:13

Sounds like a beautiful house but a money pit. Don't get swept up in the romanticism of it (easy for me to say as a fellow autistic person id be well and truly getting carried away!)

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:16

Sidebeforeself · 12/03/2025 10:34

Eh??When we have sold the STC signs have gone up pretty much straight away. There’s usually v little time between exchange and completion

Yes!

but this poster is saying once the offer has been accepted

ie way before exchange!

Bluevelvetsofa · 12/03/2025 14:17

It depends on how long the house has been on the market, how often it’s been reduced and by how much.

You really need to try to separate head and heart and regard it as the financial transaction it is, however lovely the vendor is. Bear in mind that a survey may throw up some unexpected things too. Ultimately, if she wants to sell, the price will be what someone is prepared to pay, whether that’s you OP or someone else.

You need a ball park figure of renovation costs too, because property pages are full of people who are part way through and run out of money, or can’t stand the upheaval, especially with young children.

I see you plan to go with the same agent, but it’s always useful to get quotes from others, to get a sense of the right price to go to market.

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:19

skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 12:46

@Puzzledandpissedoff thank you, and yes dh is the one leading with his head, but I think ultimately he's happy to offer.
When do you usually get the survey, is it before offering or after an offer has been accepted ?
Never done this before !

Why have you never done this before? You currently own a property?

UpMyself · 12/03/2025 14:21

Their current house might have been a new build, @Earsareitchy

skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 14:22

@Earsareitchy It was inherited

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skidamarinkadinka · 12/03/2025 14:23

Btw i am reading all the comments and taking all the advice given.

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brawhen · 12/03/2025 14:24

Just chiming in to say that we had offer accepted on a house that we loved before we put ours on the market. New house had been on the market a few months. We were just completely honest with the agent (and the vendor himself, who we met at viewing). We did not need a mortgage, but did need to sell existing house to buy - and we said exactly that. We're in Scotland and submitted a formal offer which said 'subject to sale of our existing property', which they agreed. We had the old house on the market within a few days of viewing/offering. We moved in to the new place 3 months exactly after viewing.

Bluevelvetsofa · 12/03/2025 14:26

On the south coast, you put up a sale board and you generally accept an offer that is proceedable. The bloke who puts up the boards for the agent comes along, removed the ‘For Sale’ strip, to reveal Sold with STC underneath. The property is removed from their listings, unless and until the sale falls through.

There are one or two agents who use Under Offer, a couple who use Reserved and Hamptons use I’m Taken. So, @Earsareitchy your experience is clearly different, but I moved a couple of months ago and that’s how it was. Our house had viewings on 1st, 2nd and 5th August. An offer was put forward on 5th, we negotiated, accepted a higher one and the house was no longer listed.

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:28

Op my son is also ND

and when he becomes hyper fixated - it can be very challenging. I know you say your DH is ok to make an offer but he’s being cautious - I think you need to listen and become more cautious

Sidebeforeself · 12/03/2025 14:28

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:16

Yes!

but this poster is saying once the offer has been accepted

ie way before exchange!

But that’s what I meant . In my experience the STC signs go up straight away

Earsareitchy · 12/03/2025 14:29

Ah got it

around here it is

FOR SALE
UNDER OFFER
SSTC
SOLD

i contacted an EA about a property Under Offer before.

im still here 6 years later 😂

UpMyself · 12/03/2025 14:30

@skidamarinkadinka , if the house is 1930s and listed as 'needs modernisation', it probably means needs lots of expensive, intrusive, but possibly non-urgent work.

if the owners have lived there for 40+ years, you my well be looking at new windows, boiler, wiring, insulation, roof etc.

On MN, 'needs modernising' means kitchen and bathroom look a bit like they were updated in 2010 and it needs decorating.

They are not the same thing.

You will need a full survey.