I'm quite fascinated by this comment. I live in a similar sized new build. Not in London. Actually this place looks bigger than mine.
I'm currently not taking antidepressants for the first time in decades. Well, I'm more than a year off them which is amazing.
But yeah, I'm not quite sure what you mean. For some people, this is all they can afford. I can afford more, but as I said up thread, I downsized. My first property was probably this size as well and my rental was actually a bit bigger, but I really struggled to keep on top of housework because I was working crazy hours in order to buy a flat.
I don't know if it's a changing times thing or if age has turned me into one of the four Yorkshiremen, but I just think, this is life? Yes, I dreamt of having a mansion and all the rest of it, but the reality is I am not made to achieve those things. I don't have the personality for it.
I did think about marrying for it, for about five minutes - but I value my independence and don't do well in a relationship.
Have you only lived in luxury? I had a big flat and a nicer flat before and I absolutely loved it. But it didn't save me from any mental health issues.
btw to the poster who would make it open plan, my kitchen is smaller but I'd love to close a door on it. I have thought about screens but the space is too tight. Also, separate kitchen makes it easier to deal with cooking smells.
I am expecting to retire by 52. That is exciting! Maybe I will live here forever.
if i ever feel lonely again, I will think of how many potential snobs there are out there. Got to be careful of that when meeting people.