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Would YOU let another person put you off buying your dream house?

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iloveyoubutilovememore · 24/08/2024 07:51

So I’ll keep it relatively brief otherwise this will be a three page long thread. A house in our village went on the market last year (we were nearly read to get ours on) we viewed it and loved it, ticked most of our boxes. The couple then took it off the market due to not much being available in the area they want to move to. A couple of weeks later I bit the bullet and knocked on their door making it clear that I could leave if they felt I was being intrusive. They were lovely and invited me in, we then spoke about how much me and my husband loved their house and whether they would consider selling to us privately. They agreed and said once ours was on the market we could discuss a price and move forward with it all. Fast forward to spring of this year, ours is on the market and we agree to purchase theirs for 375. Around a month ago they invited us over to have a look at the work they’ve done on the outbuilding in the garden whilst they were away. I walked round there with my son and whilst we were there, what sounded like a large dog (Doberman) barked the entire time. To the point where even my son said mummy whose dog is that? As we were leaving my husband walked past the house directly next door (attached to the house) as a couple were outside it talking, to say hello. To his surprise the woman at the house is someone we have had issues with previously. An incident occurred where they were both driving through the village but it was my husbands right of way yet she continued to drive. She would not let him go and he had tonnes of cars behind him. It escalated quickly, to which she then knocked on my door at 8am in the morning shouting and swearing about my rude husband. So needless to say, seeing her next door was a shock. She told him that she bought next door at auction (needs completely gutting) and will be living there whilst renovating (adding extension). My husband kindly tried to smooth over what happened before and she was extremely cold, refusing to apologise and whenever I said anything would smirk to her partner. Just to add to make things more confusing, after agreeing to sell to us at 375, the sellers have put it on the market for 325 so a 50k reduction. My husband feels this is dishonest and said we have been ‘mugged off’.

so my question is - knowing all of this and potentially having someone live next door who not only has been difficult, but who will be doing tonnes of building work AND has a large Doberman that doesn’t stop barking (we planned to get chickens and the back of both gardens could be accessed from either house) would you let it get in the way and look elsewhere or stand firm and continue with the purchase?

well done if you got this far!!!

OP posts:
greatcoffeebadhair · 24/08/2024 07:53

Personally, I would not move in. Bad neighbours are a nightmare.

AuntieEstablishment · 24/08/2024 07:55

I don't understand why the sellers have put it on the market if you've agreed a private sale?

greatcoffeebadhair · 24/08/2024 07:55

Also, I’m so sorry this has happened. We found what we thought was our dream home, then met the neighbour who was high on drugs and had aggressive (and badly treated) dogs. I was devastated but we let it go. We found another place which was better in the end, and we have lovely neighbours who make our lives better. I really hope things work out for you.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 24/08/2024 07:56

No way would I buy it.
Nobody's dream house comes with a side of nightmare neighbour.

OhshutupNancy · 24/08/2024 07:57

I would run a mile. No house is worth the peace and solitude of a quiet life.

OolongTeaDrinker · 24/08/2024 07:58

Definitely would put me off, and also the sellers underhand ways of marketing for so much less than your agreed price. Either one of those things would be a deal breaker for me, but both together you would be foolish to go ahead.

TheOccupier · 24/08/2024 07:58

I wouldn't knowingly move in next to rude aggressive arseholes who own a huge untrained dog and are planning major building work, no. I can't believe you have to ask!

KievLoverTwo · 24/08/2024 07:59

As long as neighbour truly bought to flip, I probably wouldn’t let that put me off.

How easily are local properties selling? It’s possible that they found the one smart agent who said “nothing is shifting, the only way you’ll get a sale is to massively underprice and hope for a bidding war.”

Seaside3 · 24/08/2024 08:02

Yes I would let them put me off. Sounds like a complete nightmare.

BellesAndGraces · 24/08/2024 08:02

No way in hell would I be buying that house.

Worried8263839 · 24/08/2024 08:03

The neighbour issue has the potential for problems down the line but if she ignored your husband/was cold, that might just be how it is going forward which would be fine by me if never had to speak to her again!

My main concern at this point is a) why have the sellers put it on the open market when a sale has been agreed? And b) why are they stupid enough to put it at £50k less?

Seems very odd and that would be my main reason for pulling out!

Instaflan · 24/08/2024 08:04

Take this as a sign from the universe that this is not the house for you. Just forget about.

Although I am confused as to why they’ve listed it if you had already agreed to purchase privately.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 24/08/2024 08:04

I would rather stick pins in my eyes. Don’t buy it.

JulietSierra · 24/08/2024 08:06

I wouldn’t touch it with a ten foot barge pole.
Can’t understand why it’s on the market when you’d agreed a private sale though?

partiallydeflatedbutoptimistic · 24/08/2024 08:08

Could it be that neighbour lady has spoken to the people who own the house and warned them off you?

velvetcoat · 24/08/2024 08:10

Not in a million years. Your "dream home" wont be much comfort with a nightmare neighbour. I've had this for 10 years and it was hell. It's not worth it.

This woman will make your lives miserable - look elsewhere.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 24/08/2024 08:10

Well you can’t pay £375 if it’s on for £325k, secondly why is it on the market at all?

Thirdly no chance, that neighbour is going to be an arsehole for as long as you live there, finding ways to make your life hell. I’d use her and pull out.

Jifmicroliquid · 24/08/2024 08:11

Why have they put it on the market when you are doing a private sale?
But no, I wouldn’t move with nightmare neighbours.

PeachRose1986 · 24/08/2024 08:14

Putting the house on the market at a reduced prize, I’d be out immediately. These people are playing games. Forget this house.

MrsMoastyToasty · 24/08/2024 08:14

There will be other houses.

SummerSplashing · 24/08/2024 08:17

No way would I buy it.

I don't understand why it's on the market if you've agreed a price already, but them
putting it on at a lower price I wouldn't have an issue about. They're probably hoping for a bidding war.

However, the woman next door will be a complete fucking nightmare, especially renovating.

Nooooooo way.

hepsitemiz · 24/08/2024 08:20

Not only why is it on the market when a sale has been agreed… but also, the agent who first showed you the house may claim against you for his commission

BreatheAndFocus · 24/08/2024 08:23

Don’t buy it! Who wants the hassle of that neighbour and a barking dog? More than that, the seller seems like they might be taking you for a ride, putting it on the market at a lower price than you agreed. Just save yourself the hassle and don’t buy it. There’ll be other houses so don’t let your heart rule your head here.

DreamW3aver · 24/08/2024 08:26

I don't understand why the neighbour things is even relevant when the house is for sale at less than you're paying, walk away right there

Firenzeflower · 24/08/2024 08:27

I wouldn't buy it.

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