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Would YOU let another person put you off buying your dream house?

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iloveyoubutilovememore · 24/08/2024 07:51

So I’ll keep it relatively brief otherwise this will be a three page long thread. A house in our village went on the market last year (we were nearly read to get ours on) we viewed it and loved it, ticked most of our boxes. The couple then took it off the market due to not much being available in the area they want to move to. A couple of weeks later I bit the bullet and knocked on their door making it clear that I could leave if they felt I was being intrusive. They were lovely and invited me in, we then spoke about how much me and my husband loved their house and whether they would consider selling to us privately. They agreed and said once ours was on the market we could discuss a price and move forward with it all. Fast forward to spring of this year, ours is on the market and we agree to purchase theirs for 375. Around a month ago they invited us over to have a look at the work they’ve done on the outbuilding in the garden whilst they were away. I walked round there with my son and whilst we were there, what sounded like a large dog (Doberman) barked the entire time. To the point where even my son said mummy whose dog is that? As we were leaving my husband walked past the house directly next door (attached to the house) as a couple were outside it talking, to say hello. To his surprise the woman at the house is someone we have had issues with previously. An incident occurred where they were both driving through the village but it was my husbands right of way yet she continued to drive. She would not let him go and he had tonnes of cars behind him. It escalated quickly, to which she then knocked on my door at 8am in the morning shouting and swearing about my rude husband. So needless to say, seeing her next door was a shock. She told him that she bought next door at auction (needs completely gutting) and will be living there whilst renovating (adding extension). My husband kindly tried to smooth over what happened before and she was extremely cold, refusing to apologise and whenever I said anything would smirk to her partner. Just to add to make things more confusing, after agreeing to sell to us at 375, the sellers have put it on the market for 325 so a 50k reduction. My husband feels this is dishonest and said we have been ‘mugged off’.

so my question is - knowing all of this and potentially having someone live next door who not only has been difficult, but who will be doing tonnes of building work AND has a large Doberman that doesn’t stop barking (we planned to get chickens and the back of both gardens could be accessed from either house) would you let it get in the way and look elsewhere or stand firm and continue with the purchase?

well done if you got this far!!!

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Wavescrashingonthebeach · 24/08/2024 16:31

Dear God no sounds like a recipe for a nightmare

good96 · 24/08/2024 16:46

I wouldn’t buy it. Sneaky vendors and the bad neighbours are the worst!

standardmum · 25/08/2024 08:19

No. Having had horrible neighbours. I'd be very wary in future and knowing what you do, no blooming way!!!

YankeeDad · 25/08/2024 08:44

Just no. Life is too short to knowingly move next to shitty neighbours.

Creamteasandbumblebees · 01/09/2024 14:12

Sounds like you have had a lucky escape....walk away!

godmum56 · 01/09/2024 14:32

Do not do this
REALLY do not do this
HELL NO do not do this

Do you get my drift? (and I love dogs)

Sunglow1921 · 01/09/2024 14:43

You’ve been incredibly lucky to see the nightmare neighbours at this stage. Think how you’d feel if you met them when moving in. Take it as a sign that this is not the house for you and pull out of the sale. They would likely make your life a living hell.

If you do move in and end up having a dispute with them, it would have to be declared as part of any future sale, which could put potential buyers off.

Also, the seller sounds dodgy and there’s not way you should pay what you’ve agreed when the house is on the market for £50k less.

I actually can’t think of any good reason in favour of buying this house.

Toomanytesticles · 01/09/2024 14:52

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 24/08/2024 07:56

No way would I buy it.
Nobody's dream house comes with a side of nightmare neighbour.

This.

There will be other dream houses

sunseaandsoundingoff · 01/09/2024 14:54

I'm literally trying to move away from a neighbour like this, she's always finding something to complain about as an excuse to knock on the door too.

It's not your dream house, because your dream house would not have these neighbours.

Mudflaps · 01/09/2024 15:32

I wouldn't buy beside someone I knew to be troublesome BUT move beside a Dobermann, any day, anywhere, yes, yes, yes. I love them, they are so intelligent, loving and fantastic with children. I'm in my mid 50's and have had dobermann since I was a child, cannot recommend them highly enough.

FrazzledFTworkingMum · 01/09/2024 21:26

avoid like the plague. you only have one life, why would you want to move into this situation?

Saz12 · 01/09/2024 21:38

You've dodged a bullet - neighbours sound awful, who needs that crap, AND you'd have overpaid.

From sellers pov, you were always going to pay more than ea baluation because you lived the house. You couldve had your own survey /valuation before discussing price with them, and in a small place they're going to hear what yours sold for.

Theseventhmagpie · 02/09/2024 15:01

I wouldn’t touch the house with someone else’s barge pole!

EmeraldDreams73 · 02/09/2024 15:41

I wouldn't buy it. She sounds awful, I've had a nightmare neighbour and it was hell.

Also, wtf are they doing putting it on the market for 50k less than already agreed with you?! If a genuine agreement had been made for private sale, it should be on the condition that it's not being marketed at all, let alone for less money! I'd walk away I'm afraid.

Hoolahoophop · 02/09/2024 15:51

Sounds like market changed and they were advised by estate agents at new price. So not necessarily them being awful. But if the neighbor is. Then its still a no.

KeepinOn · 02/09/2024 15:58

Guaranteed they've had a neighbour dispute on record hence the listed price.

Lucky escape, OP. Now you know whatever house you choose won't have those neighbours too!

DreamingofManderley · 03/09/2024 12:49

Doesn’t sound like it would be a dream home anymore. Walk away and wait for something else.

TealPoet · 04/09/2024 00:35

I’d be fine with the dog but the rest no way at all :(

JaneRocks · 04/09/2024 10:12

I can't believe you'd even consider buying the house now! Giant, house sized red flag! If you've never lived next door to nightmare neighbours before, take it from me, it can ruin your life! My neighbours made me feel so uncomfortable that I stopped using my own garden. I haven't used it for a couple of years now. We used to grow veg, now we don't grow anything.

Swiftie1878 · 05/09/2024 12:08

Wouldn’t buy it. End of.

BlueMongoose · 06/09/2024 20:22

Mudflaps · 01/09/2024 15:32

I wouldn't buy beside someone I knew to be troublesome BUT move beside a Dobermann, any day, anywhere, yes, yes, yes. I love them, they are so intelligent, loving and fantastic with children. I'm in my mid 50's and have had dobermann since I was a child, cannot recommend them highly enough.

Dogs that bark all the time are a ruddy pest, whatever their breed. By definition, they are not well trained or happy or well-adjusted. And if they are large dogs, they are likely to not even be safe, if they are not well trained or happy or well-adjusted.
And I say that as one who likes dogs in general and likes Dobermans in particular.

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