The thing is, the LL chooses the items they provide and it is expected that they are there at the end of the tenancy.
A tenant might not like them and rip up a carpet and replace it with something entirely different which they like…but which the LL feels doesn’t match the property or go with the overall decor. It is not acceptable for a tenant to do this unless they have asked.
A tenant might think they have improved a property with their changes, but the point is, it isn’t their choice to decide to change it for better or for worse…whatever those terms mean.
Quite simply, changes need to be put to the LL and permission to carry them out (or a request to the LL to carry them out) made ahead if making those changes. Changing paint colours, removing and disposing of LL provided curtains, fittings, carpets etc or making changes such as structural changes are not something for tenants to choose to do and go ahead with, without the LL permission.
As several tenants on this thread have said, most people understand this. As tenants, if they want a different wall colour they ask the LL about it. The LL can either agree, agree but say the original colour must be repainted by the end of tenancy or say no. Tenants who simply decide they want a change and go ahead with it, rarely fail to understand that’s not acceptable, but instead just do it regardless. They might appear surprised if the LL wants redress via the deposit scheme and claim ignorance about the fact this wasn’t allowed….but usually they were perfectly aware and just hoped it wouldn’t be pursued.
BabaBario, if a tenant swaps the LLs curtains for their own, at the end of the tenancy they should switch them back so the LL receives theirs back. The LL does not want the curtains the tenant chose. The tenant has no right to dispose of the LLs property. It is not up to the tenant to leave the property with just any curtains that they choose to leave.
Re the OPs situation, we don’t know if her curtains were damaged and disposed of, or disliked and disposed of or sold. But the curtains she had provided weee no longer there and the ones left by tenant were not what the LL would have wanted. And it’s the LLs choice, not the tenants.
Most of these issues come down to communication. When tenants want to make changes, they simply need to ask. Some changes won’t be accepted by a LL and the tenant has to accept their decision. Others will be accepted. The problem comes when there has been no communication and on check-out the changes that haven’t been authorised become evident and the tenant doesn’t want to be charged for righting what they have done.