We bought our first home in August 1988.
£52,00, a small Victorian terrace. It needed work which we couldn’t afford to do, but the market was rising quickly and we panicked we wouldn’t be able to afford anything if we didn't get on the housing ladder.
95% endowment mortgage, so mortgage + endowment payments were £510/ month, my take home pay was £520/ month. DH salary was £530 and paid our bills and other expenses. One whole wage spent on a rubbish cold damp terrace. I was miserable and depressed about how we would ever be able to afford something better or afford to have a family.
Prices crashed soon after we moved in, and with such a small deposit we were in negative equity. Eventually sold it for £43000 in 1992 and took the hit by using savings and a £5000 loan from my parents.
Interest rates had fallen by then and our salaries had risen so we were able to find a new build in budget.
The original endowment turned out to be a poor investment which was never going to payoff the mortgage so eventually switched to a repayment mortgage.
Each generation has its challenges, but those early years were a struggle. One car and I walked to work. We budgeted for every single thing. Furniture was second hand or donated by relatives. We did our own diy (badly). On the other hand I know how lucky I am to have benefited from free university education and decent public sector pensions. We married young at 22 and 23 so had more years to get established in our careers and build up some equity before having children in our early 30s.
There have always been ups and downs in the housing market. We’ve had an unprecedented period of low interest rates which has artificially increased house prices. Lifestyle expectations have also risen. There will be a period of market adjustment which is incredibly painful and stressful for those who are left with loans higher than the value of their homes. The trend for settling down later means so many financial pressures get compressed into a few years.
I have no answers, but now see my own children going through the same problems to get on the housing ladder.