We decided that a far better financial position to be in would be to have the house deposit and move fees, a 10k household fixing/life stuff slush fund plus six months of take-home pay in the bank in case of redundancy, etc.
The mortgage was going to be hellishly expensive already, and having that six month safety net would have been exceptionally hard to save for.
Basically, the worse things get, the more scared we get, and the more prudent it makes us want to be.
OH told me yesterday there have been 50,000 redundancies in his industry since January!!!
Yah, if you had told me that sooner, maybe I was never gonna buy a house this year 👀
We live to be humbled.