@BraveToaster I have to agree with you regarding renting. There seems to be an old-school attitude that if you don't own your own home, you are some sort of lower class citizen to those who do. Half my family seem to have this attitude; they were all raised on a council estate, and, for the most part, barely have a pot to piss in and will retire on state pensions. Yet, this snobbery persists.
What renting has taken from me, it's also given back. Frankly we've had a dreadful last 3+ years renting. However. We've now had the opportunity to live in three different counties that we absolutely, categorically would NOT want to be our permanent home. Had we pushed ourselves to buy in any of them, I think we'd be really unhappy now. None of them were the right place to settle.
The other thing that renting has taught us is an awful lot - tonnes and tonnes of information - about what we do and do not want in a house. It does make it more difficult to find the right house to buy, but we're far more experienced at seeing 'no way' flags than your average person who doesn't have dozens of rentals behind them. Which means we're far less likely to make a colossal, expensive mistake.
And, from our perspective, our rent is £1600 pm and we're still putting away £1400-2100 per month towards a deposit on a house.
We have a lovely landlady with no mortgage who is very proactive in fixing things. She even gets our weeds sprayed, lawns mowed and hedges topped! First sign of mole activity and she's here sorting it; she had the kitchen redesigned for us to fit a range cooker in (when she couldn't remove an Aga), now that size cooker doesn't work for us, she's talking about getting it done again so we can fit a bigger one in - there's no mention of us paying for it, then she's going to get the entire kitchen redecorated. When our boiler failed last month, she had her man here within 2.5 hours.
Not all rental homes are dreadful and not all tenancies are a complete waste of both time and money.
But... I don't want to live in this county. So, again, renting this house has taught me that. If we'd just driven through it a few times and looked around, we probably would have said 'lots of space, yeah this is pretty, let's buy here' - but it would have not been the right thing to do for our long term future.
I wonder how many people who have bought houses have ended up in a county/city/town/village/country that they don't really like, because they never had the opportunity to spend enough time there to see it warts and all?