So ... I'll bite. This will be the first directly personal criticism I've made. Here goes:
@rainingsnoring doesn't properly read, digest, and reflect on other posters' posts before responding.
I quite clearly said that I didn't go to Disneyland. Won't be going. No Disneyland holiday.
"My spend on the family holiday to Disneyland I'm not taking the kids on this year will be zero."
So ... not bragging. I don't have a property portfolio either. I said I'd bought and sold many houses. Doesn't mean I have more than one right now. And everyone in my company is getting a pay rise, not just me. Most others in the sector too. The context being I was making the point that pay rises will mitigate the effects of the recent rises in interest rates. Context matters - but keep selectively quoting to try and sustain an argument, by all means.
I've never directly accused anyone on this forum of being an INCEL. I've pointed out a remarkable similarity in posting style between some contributors here and the type of rhetoric seen on HPC (and there's been some old 'friends' returning from other threads with a new name, too - welcome back!). I will happily admit that it is my opinion that most of the misogynists over on the HPC forum are INCELS, but apparently they are over there and not on here, right? So why would anyone be so triggered by this implication? I wonder, I wonder ...
As a point of order, INCEL is not an insult - it's a self-applied label of which they seem quite proud. It is the online behaviour of people who so self-identify that has given the term a bad reputation. But that's kinda my point ... everyone who disagrees with them is an idiot, or illiterate, or a troll, or an EA, or deluded. And whilst I'm none of those things, I do have a very nice house, that I am pleased I bought when I did, and I would strongly encourage anyone wondering about whether to buy a house to do so as soon as they can afford to. It's a lovely thing to have peace of mind and security. And it does seem to ward off bitterness and resentment, too. Which is nice.