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Viewing houses- surely everyone does this?

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Sophieagain1984 · 28/09/2022 14:01

We're house hunting. Whenever I view a house, I always knock on the door of the next door neighbour, pretending I've got the wrong house- I like to know what the neighbour is like and sometimes they even give you useful info.

DH says no one else does this and it's weird. WDYT?

OP posts:
WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 28/09/2022 17:09

How odd. Confused Never known anyone do this. I have never done it, and no-one I know does... I agree with a few posters @Sophieagain1984 that just because they seem nice when you first meet them, that tells you fuck all. I have known LOADS of occasions where someone seems 'lovely,' and when you get to know them better, (and sometimes when they've been on the booze,) they turn into arseholes... Who play very loud music, up the volume of their voice (X 5!) have 3 or 4 yappy or barky or aggressive dogs, and have loads of people around, making lots of noise, and making it hard to get into your driveway (or find somewhere to park if you don't have a driveway.)

I have had people knock my door though (when next door was for sale,) and ask me if the neighbourhood was OK (- well I wouldn't be living here if it wasn't! -) Around 8 or 9 people knocked, before I stopped answering!

A few people of these 8 or 9 asked me if the house had any issues or problems they should know about! About 4 people asked me that! Pissed me right off that did, especially as I knew it needed a new roof, new soffits and guttering, and the entire wall along the small back bedroom on the end - (inside and out,) and the dining room wall (also inside and out) were both riddled with damp, (but I knew it was not my place to say anything.)

Put me in an awkward position. I just stopped answering the bloody door when people came to view! With the ones who did catch me, I just said 'I have no idea.' It was fuck all to do with me! I wasn't gonna comment.

It had been a private let for 10 years and like most landlords, the owner who rented it out didn't give a shit about it. Took 2 years to sell, and fell though SIX times when the prospective buyers had it surveyed. It eventually went to a lovely couple who knew of all the issues and knocked the landlord down by 15%! They spent a year sorting it and now it's lovely.

Nanny0gg · 28/09/2022 17:10

Sophieagain1984 · 28/09/2022 14:39

Well I have told DH that everyone agrees with him and he is very smug.

(I am still going to keep doing it though- don't really care if they think I'm odd, I'm more interested in whether I think they're odd!)

I think I might think that if people were going to hassle me, I wouldn't want them as neighbours myself, so I'd probably try and put them off

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 28/09/2022 17:11

Clinomania · 28/09/2022 16:39

OP this is genius. Ignore the doubters. Look at the many threads on here about neighbours from hell. You can also glean intelligence about the general area/ any new plans that will blight or boost the area by chatting. Knock on my door anytime. Works both ways: I also want to vet prospective new buyers! I’m using your tactic if interest rates ever come down below 10000%.

Oh gawd... I will be sure to be a typical mumsnetter and not answer my door ever again, unless I am expecting someone. As I said in my post above. People knocking my door to ask about the area (when next door was for sale for 2 years) got on my fucking nerves. Ask the people you're buying the house from!!! Don't bother me! Hmm

Yeah yeah yeah I bet you think 'bah wouldn't like to be YOUR neighbour,' but I got SO pissed off with strangers knocking my door to ask me about the area, and the bloody house next door and if I knew about any ISSUES! So yeah, after 8 or 9 different sets of people badgering me, I stopped answering the door!!!

Also, as I said, it is IMPOSSIBLE to tell what people are like from knocking on their door and speaking to them for 5 minutes!

Also @Sophieagain1984 Of COURSE people still have 'for sale' signs. Most people do!

GelatoQueen · 28/09/2022 17:12

Never done it OP - neighbours can change.

TheFreaksShallInheritTheEarth · 28/09/2022 17:13

Surely the wrong house ‘trick’ would only work on streets where the houses all look the same… and didn’t have any numbers?

‘Hello is this number 42?”
‘Number 42, the 2 bed semi-detached bungalow? No this is 44, the six bed, three storey detached townhouse with the large 44 on the front!”

Stravaig · 28/09/2022 17:15

You can tell if they're obviously problem neighbours.

Which is what everyone is thinking about you when you do this! I wonder how many have begged the sellers not to accept an offer from you 🤣

WonderingWanda · 28/09/2022 17:18

I've never done that but have been know to godforsaken walks around the vicinity at different hours of the day / night to get a bit of an idea of noise, parking, antisocial behaviour etc.

Whatthebarnacles · 28/09/2022 17:18

A house opposite me (we're in a quiet street) was up for sale a couple years ago. Two of the viewers knocked and asked me if parking was an issue and is there usually any wild kids congregating etc. I had no issue answering their questions. So no, you're not weird. Go for it. (But be straight with the neighbours, don't pretend it's the wrong door then jump to conclusions about their first impression upon you - that's underhanded).

WonderingWanda · 28/09/2022 17:24

I love that my go for some walks autocorrected for godforsaken walks!

SarahAndQuack · 28/09/2022 17:25

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 28/09/2022 16:06

@SarahAndQuack this warms my soul. !

Grin Thank you!

bumblingbovine49 · 28/09/2022 17:26

Good grief, no I would never do that. Some houses might have several viewings in a day - think how annoying that would be if they all knocked on the neighbour's door.

Spidey66 · 28/09/2022 17:28

Sorry, but you’re both rude and weird!

ThirtyThreeTrees · 28/09/2022 17:34

There's no har in wanting to see what the neighbours are like and get their view on the area but own it and just be upfront and say you are thinking of buying next door . No one is stupid enough to believe you are lost or st the wrong door!

southlondonerhere · 28/09/2022 17:34

I've recently bought a house, our new neighbours told us that during the sale process two couples knocked on their door asking if they could put in a good word for them to the seller!! 😳😂

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 28/09/2022 17:41

Never done it but it's a good idea

MrsJamieDornan · 28/09/2022 17:45

I think this means that you'd be the weird neighbour

Lovelystuff · 28/09/2022 17:46

I might have a subtle look at the neighbours garden to get a feel for them. Nice lawn is usually a good sign but shopping trolleys usually aren’t.

WelshNerd · 28/09/2022 17:47

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Lesserspotteddogfish · 28/09/2022 17:48

I’ve done it without the pretence. Just asked them directly what the neighbourhood was like and saw what they were like in the process. Also sat in the car on the road at various times of day or night to see if their was any antisocial behaviour. Probably a bit extreme but we were moving from a horrible place.

Fluffluff · 28/09/2022 17:51

I've done it once but told the truth that I was thinking of. Buying a house and what's the area like etc

SuperSue77 · 28/09/2022 17:51

When viewing my flat I knocked on the downstairs door to ask what the neighbourhood was like. A timid woman answered the door and said there were some dodgy druggies around but otherwise okay. I bought the place and turned out all the dodgy druggies were hanging around to buy from her!
So I’ve definitely knocked on a prospective neighbour’s door but was up front about it rather than pretend I got the wrong place - not that it did me any good!

Fluffluff · 28/09/2022 17:52

Should add that was the reason we didn't buy that house.
The people who we asked said there were noise issues with a neighbour.

SuperSue77 · 28/09/2022 17:52

Given the cost of moving I think it’s a good idea to check out your prospective neighbourhood - you test drive a car and they’re a lot less money!

Marshmallowmountain · 28/09/2022 17:52

No that’s so weird

QueenWenceslas · 28/09/2022 17:59

Sorry OP but this is really weird.

The house next door to me is up for sale, and I hate the twats that live there currently. If you knocked on my door, I’d tell you my street is the best street in the world because I’m desperate to get rid of them. Doesn’t make it necessarily true.