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Viewing houses- surely everyone does this?

277 replies

Sophieagain1984 · 28/09/2022 14:01

We're house hunting. Whenever I view a house, I always knock on the door of the next door neighbour, pretending I've got the wrong house- I like to know what the neighbour is like and sometimes they even give you useful info.

DH says no one else does this and it's weird. WDYT?

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minticecreamisjustok · 28/09/2022 14:59

Not sure it would work, most people seem
Nice at first, it's only after a while of living next to them they become a nuisance.

MajorCarolDanvers · 28/09/2022 15:00

It's very weird.

Don't tell anyone you know in real
Life that you do this.

BlackandJello · 28/09/2022 15:01

Never done it but wish I bloody had! My neighbours are a right pain and are probably the reason the precious owners moved.

Trinity65 · 28/09/2022 15:01

I am so sorry OP but that is just batshit

akissbeforebed · 28/09/2022 15:01

But what if the neighbours don't know? What if there's a really good reason for the sellers not to tell them?

Our neighbours just up and moved one day, never said a word - no for sale signs, nothing. I heard through the grapevine they just wanted it all to be done very quietly without everyone knowing. No reason, it's a nice road and there where no issues - or at least none that I know of.

Trinity65 · 28/09/2022 15:02

Bobshhh · 28/09/2022 14:31

How would you know if someone was normal / not a total psychopath from a brief doorstep conversation?

Exactly

😂😂

Sophieagain1984 · 28/09/2022 15:02

Despairingof · 28/09/2022 14:55

What could you possibly assess in a few seconds chat? Certainly their race, maybe how they speak.
Doesn’t sound a pleasant way of judging people to me.

No it doesn't- bit surprised you've come up with it, to be frank.

You can tell a fair bit. Do they have an enormous dog that barks a lot? Are they generally pleasant or rude and aggressive? Is it a family home or student sharers? Obviously you can't tell everything but it's better than nothing.

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Phillpill · 28/09/2022 15:04

I knocked on the neighbours door to ask what the area was like 😂 and we are only renting!

SheWoreYellow · 28/09/2022 15:04

nannybeach · 28/09/2022 14:32

How can you do that, when you have an estate agent with you? Me,there's a pub at the end of our road, I wanted to make sure it didn't cause problems. I knocked on neighbours doors,and they referred me to another near neighbour who has lived here since the property was built in 1965.

Arrive five minutes early? Go back another time?

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 28/09/2022 15:05

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gretr · 28/09/2022 15:06

How would you know what they are like if you have a 2s conversation with them? Or do you just want to see what they look like?

BeanStew22 · 28/09/2022 15:06

FlounderingFruitcake · 28/09/2022 14:10

If you’re going to do it then at least be upfront and say you’re viewing next door and would they recommend the street etc. To pretend you can’t read door numbers is a bit cringe!

^ this. Maybe try a few doors down too as a starter

dingbat56 · 28/09/2022 15:08

When we viewed our previous house the next door neighbour was hanging about in his garden and came out to chat ! We just thought he was nosy .. and went on to buy the house … he and his family were a noisy nightmare and really quite unpleasant .. but well regarded locally ! We had no inkling from that initial conversation

Thurst · 28/09/2022 15:09

No but I hang around outside for ages looking at the house and pointing at windows etc in the hopes that a neighbour will come and introduce themselves. It often works.

sanityisamyth · 28/09/2022 15:09

Never heard of anyone doing it to anyone.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 28/09/2022 15:10

Stand in the middle of the road and bellow 'I'VE BEEN SHAGGING YOUR MAN!'. If loads of people bundle out their front doors for some fisticuffs with you, you'll know it's a bit rough.

Redqueenheart · 28/09/2022 15:11

No.

I would just make sure I have a good look around at how the neighbours keep their house (I would expect a tidy garden, clean windows, and no mess everywhere) then come back in the evening/weekend to make sure there is no noise issue.

Beyond that there is no need to be so nosey...

Sophieagain1984 · 28/09/2022 15:11

Thurst · 28/09/2022 15:09

No but I hang around outside for ages looking at the house and pointing at windows etc in the hopes that a neighbour will come and introduce themselves. It often works.

Oh, I like this idea!

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ReneBumsWombats · 28/09/2022 15:12

If everyone does it, don't you think the neighbours would clock it when the fifth viewer does it?

krustykittens · 28/09/2022 15:12

If I was serious about making an offer, I would take a walk around on a Saturday morning and see if I could find someone out and about to talk to. I wouldn't disturb them at home. I was once house hunting for a place with land as we keep ponies and I viewed a beautiful house but was not sure about the land or how safe it was to ride out around it. As I was leaving, a neighbour was waiting for me at the end of the drive and he couldn't WAIT to tell me how badly the place flooded in the winter, to the point where we would have no turn out at all, and that quiet country lanes around it, with no access anywhere to off road hacking, were used as a rat run between local towns. Further digging proved everything he said was true. The seller must have really pissed him off for him to lie in wait for viewers! I am not surprised, she was extremely rude and at one point I wanted to just leave mid-viewing.

Gysophilla · 28/09/2022 15:13

God no! But I would wander around the area and different times of day etc

purpleleotard2 · 28/09/2022 15:13

Haven't moved house in 39 years but think your technique of checking out the neighbours is really good.

Far better to do that and find out what is happening than move and realise horrid next doors.

Keep on doing it.

ChampagneLassie · 28/09/2022 15:14

I always knock on neighbours, but I tell the truth - hi I'm viewing next door and I ask about neighbourhood, houses, schools etc. Can be very useful beyond just meeting that neighbour get a feel for area, what you can do with property etc.

Roscie · 28/09/2022 15:14

When I was about 15 I answered the door to a stranger who (after asking for my parent - who wasn't in), asked if I liked the area I lived in because they were thinking about moving there.... I just gawped at them, I literally stood like a goldfish for quite a few miserable seconds. I was sure it was a wind up and/or some sort of con - not sure what though! I didn't have a clue what to say. I eventually them to come back another time and shut the door on them. I never saw them again.

If I put them off I did them a favour!

UrslaB · 28/09/2022 15:14

Oh OP, I was taught to always knock on two doors by my folks when looking at property. Was a bit mortified in the beginning but soon got over it and discovered if you hit the right chatty neighbor it can be dead useful. Find out about other neighbours, facilities near by I was unaware of, parking issues etc. Also, get a feel of your own new potential neighbours.

Was taught to knock on one directly next door and one a few doors away. Be very open about being interested in the house for sale, ask about the local area, neighbours, kids in the areas/antisocial behavior etc. How they found living in the area etc.

My brother when purchasing a house discovered after some chats with one neighbour that a house he was interested in had flooded the year before due to poorly done pipes. Owner had paid to have it fixed so solicitor and insurance checks hadn't flagged it but nosey neighbour told him all the details.

When myself and OH were house hunting we saw a property but discovered the one directly across the road was being used as an air B&B and short term rental which had been causing some issues (parties, parking conerns etc). Then another property we thought was perfect but when we talked to a neighbor he asked if we had kids. I said no, but I had a niece and nephew who visited regularly and plans for the future. He pulled a face and informed me that the little old man who seemed so nice that we would end up sharing a drive with, he had an adult son who was a convicted pedo and he made regular visits to the house and stayed over increasingly often as the old man's health was declining. Useful information no estate agent or home owner would have revealed.

Always knock on a few neighbors doors. Be polite. Be friendly. Ask some open ended questions. They might be your Neighbours one day soon, or they might tell you something useful.