@JoanDarc I hear you on being distracted by pretty pictures, I keep changing my mind on kitchen design and just need to stop thinking about it now!
The design I had done was amazing in terms of layout, but had a white shaker kitchen with marble quartz worktops - I'm thinking white shaker isn't very 'me', also I don't want to have to clean out the grooves all the time - that's a low-level irritation with our current inherited kitchen.
I went handleless in our last kitchen (DIY's Luca) but found that the J grooves also collect crumbs etc. Then I thought I'd be best off with just flat panel doors with some beautiful handles, but I'm struggling to find any that look suitably luxurious!
I'd just like someone to just decide for me at this point. I've reduced the size of our rooflights which saved £££ so I have a bit more room to play with.