We have a renovation project house, and very little money.
Most of the work done over the past couple of years we have done ourselves, but have also got friendly with a local plasterer and plumber who have done bits here and there for a reasonable price..it's regular work for them and they are very local.
It does get stressful..I hate mess and am a bit of a tidy freak, but have had to dig deep and embrace the mess! There is constant dust everywhere and the big project rooms - bathroom and kitchen/diner are pretty horrible at the moment..they're realistically going to be the last bits we can afford to do.
But...we have done the front two reception rooms, DD's bedroom and the spare room and the hallway is partially done.
We have had the roof repaired, a new boiler fitted, plug socket rewire throughout and new PVC piping in to replace the old lead.
We have had to do things in a certain order..mainly the bits needed to make the house watertight and warm initially which took most of the small amount of budget we had.
We have a good friend who is a carpenter and he has replaced 4 of the rubbish, leaky and rotten old casement windows with new wood double glazed sash's for us..again at a good rate as he is a friend and works with a joiner in Brighton who was able to do us a good price. He also built us alcoves cupboards in the front room at a fraction of the cost (he used pictures of the work in his promotional material).
OH has taken walls down, ripped out an old bathroom and sanded and varnished floors. I have stripped endless old wallpaper and decorated rooms, and also renovated 2 Edwardian fireplaces.
Upsides - I love old houses and this one is proving to be a real treasure trove of period features that have been covered up and neglected for the past 50+ years. I feel a real sense of pride and achievement in what we are doing.
We are living in a house I would never have dreamed we could have, but only because we are prepared to live in a perpetual building site. It will be fabulous, but it's going to take time and effort.
Cons: The dirt/dust/noise/general mess. The grotty kitchen and bathroom, no shower and only one toilet.
Having 2 DC's in amongst all the madness can be very testing for everyone, but they've got used to the chaos!
We spend a lot of our time working on the house, when we could (and should) be doing other things. I often feel guilty that we should be out and about with the kids more.