As a seller I only accepted the offer on the terms that 'it was not subject to having to meet stamp duty etc' and that it was on the condition they let me find somewhere. I have not heard any complaints from the buyers but once I have pushed the agent on many occasions they eventually said the buyer was trying to meet the July deadline. They agreed to push through but it's not even likely we will find anywhere by September.
We’re in the same position as your buyer... our vendor asked for time to move; and it was always clear that we wouldn’t make the July deadline, but we expect to make the September one. To be honest, I think if our vendor asked for a few months, our buyer would probably pull out... but even if they didn’t, we want to be moved before then.
Has the EA made it clear to them that it’s going to be a long wait? Our suggested that our vendor would need “a few weeks”... it’s been a month or so now, and our buyer has started to query how long it’s taking, so we’re going to chase it up on Tuesday if we haven’t heard anything...
Thankfully we’re not near London, but the market here is still pretty crazy, most things are under offer the same day that they get listed.
We have the same problems with HMOs though. Loads of nice houses have been sold to convert into flats, even though flats aren’t really selling, and there’s a load of old HMOs for sale that aren’t moving because there’s no students to rent them at the moment. It’s hard to find a nice house! I’m so scared we’ll lose ours and not be able to find much else, but we also can’t lose our buyer.
I hope you find somewhere soon, buying and selling feels so stressful right now.