OP, remember, you can change your mind on this still.....right up to exchange.
People get cross about so-called gazunderimg , when people lower their offer. It can be a rather low trick or it can reflect changed circumstances such as survey revealing a significant flaw, or the market taking a significant change in direction......like now.
Some people will pay the intitial price they agreed because they feel awkward about reducing their offer or can't face the conversation with the estate agents. These are not good reasons for a big financial decision. Logical thinking and recognition of the realities of the current market is the way forward.
Estate agents clearly want the market to hold up regarding prices and sales. Their livelihood depends on it. They work for the seller who wants the highest possible price and they do lots of things to talk people out of reducing their offer - some unscrupulous, some just rather manipulative. As a buyer you have to look at it coldly and not be swayed by them or embarrassment about negotiating.
Fair enough if you'd just completed before Covid happened. No-one could foresee this coming and that we're probably buying at the top of the peak. Quite different to know the market is just starting to tank and still paying peak price when it's avoidable.
So keep thinking about it and watching what's happening and bear in mind that you can lower your offer if you want to. Some people will do it more than once. Doing it late in the day is always worse for the seller but in the current circumstances there will be a lot of that happening too which to be honest isn't unreasonable at the moment.
'Dear EA, in light of the recent announcement of the fact we are in recession, and the extremely gloomy economic forecast which will unavoidably hit both labour and housing markets, it is with regret that we feel we must reduce our offer for X to Y. We realise this will be disappointing for our seller but hope they understand it is in response to the declime in house prices which is happening and will continue for some time. Please can we emphasise how we love the house and are keen and able to proceed to exchange rapidly. Please would you pass this message directly to them and we will await their response.'