I have to chime in here with an essay as we moved to BS in Jan (well hubby came first in Nov last yr) and I have to say, I think we made a great choice. We moved from Manchester where we enjoyed city life and could escape the peaks etc at the drop of a hat.
My take on BS. If you're looking for a lovely place to raise the kids, get involved in community life and have a support network of (hopefully) like-minded people its great. I plan for us to stay here until the kid(s) are grown and then they can visit easily from Cambridge where of course they will be at University! : )
WHERE TO LIVE
We live 5 minutes from town and love that we can stroll in. We're also 6/7 mins from the station which is great for commuting. There seems to be a shortage of 3 bed houses though.
Thorley Park is quite a bit 'estate', quite leafy in my opinion, park in the middle, I think 3 nurseries. Its a little too 'residential' for us (coming from city!) and I'd feel like a Bree Vandrkampf. That said, I have friends who live there and really like it. It has all that you would need on a day to day basis. Apparently, being 20-25 minutes from town is 'walking distance'. Obviously I'm either in too much of a rush or I'm lazy. Probably the latter : )_
St Michael's Mead - this is another big estate. Seems like people have this covered above. It looks very executive compared with thorley park but have no idea how close your nearest cornershop is! I personally like to b able to nip to the shop for milk rather than have no choice but to bundle little one in the car etc.
Where you pick depends on what your priorities are and whats on your 'must' list : )
My suggestion actually would be to consider renting (affordable) and then gt to know the areas before buying. We're doing this as are many families we know. I flt uncomfortable with making such a hug commitment to a place we knew little about for ourselves. Rent - yes its dead money, but you could se it as an investment into being able to make an informed decision : ) tehehe It also gives you more time to look for the perfect(!) house... just don't buy it before we do ..lol
NURSERIES
We looked at Saplings (not in stortford but en route to cambridge). Its a lovely farm nursery. Really nice set up.
We decided on nursery closer to home though and so pleased we did. DD goes to Busy Bees in thorley park. I ABSOLUTELY ADORE THE MANAGER AND A LADY CALLED JO. It is BY FAR the best childcare we have paid for in the last 4 years and we worked it out the other day - we've spent close to £50k on childcare! can you imagine...
Busy bees in st michaels mead did not really impress me despite th shiny exterior.
SCHOOL
This is the main reason that we chose this town. I think all the schools are good. DD is going to Northgate and we visited last week. IT IS AMAZING! It compares extremely favourably to the independent schools we viewed in manchester. We are thrilled. All the schools are good though and so are th secondary schools.
COMMUTE
This is the trade off for us. It can b awful on a bad day. I drive to north london part of the week and train to central london the half. The train is fine imo. I've ALWAYS gotten a seat on the way to London, though have struggled sometimes on the way back. Trains are regular and quite reliable. M11 is easily accessible, but you may live at the mercy of the M25. Alternate routes are a10, a414 when ther ar accidents on the 25. Its good to have a back-up plan... the good thing is that when we come home we're happy about where we are...
SHOPPING
You need to leave stortford if you want anything exciting (I use this term loosely)... There are only a fw clothing shops - very uninspiring. I'm a cosmopolitan soul and so wish I could get a falafel (authentic) or buy the African food stuffs easily that I like... again this is a trade off for the high quality education and community spirit which is why most people seem to have moved here - which is great cos you just seem to click with everyone
LEISURE
there are quite a few little coffee/tea rooms for such a small area. I really like this aspect of town. There are a couple of nic restaurants. I highly recommend HOST. There's lots for the kids to do.
CAMBRIDGE
I also love Cambridge which we travel to rather than live in. The reason for this is the extra leg of th commute into London wouldnt suit us. But Cambridge is just LOVELY - great for shopping, arts, and general culture there.
All in all, we're