Fiddledee, I absolutely love Guilford but the houses within the catchment area of George Abbot secondary school are dire and overpriced (sorry, don't mean to offent anyone) and we wouldn't really be within walking distance to Guilford anyway so I feel we wouldn't get the benefits.
Godalming, again, really don't mean to offend anyone, but I found it WAY too small and sleepy as well as a bit 'old' and very very white middle class. I got the feeling that if you don't go to church you wouldn't be part of the community?
If there are no great state secondaries in Cobham and Esher, then we can't consider those areas...
Dickcheese, thanks for your input. How is Weybrisge friendly? I love the houses there. Again, we would want to move within the catchment area of Heathside but also need primary schools. Budget for house is about £625K. Is Weybridge pretty much walkable as in primary schools and out of schools activities (Karate, swimming, ballet, etc)?
PanicMode, where do you live?