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To think a lot of people who agree with VAT on school fees…

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geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 17:44

Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already.

There seems to be a mentality that if you can afford 20k a year then you’re already comfortable so sod it, you should find more cash now for vat … but do people in general not understand that some families re mortgage their homes to pay these fees? Yes there’s mega wealthy people but there’s many, many more who are not.

On the one hand we hear a good education is a luxury so VAT must be applied, then on the other we are told a good education is a right for all. So… why are we taking away that good education from those who already have it? Why is the focus not on sorting out the state sector properly? We all know the vat won’t fix the state sector. It may help in a tiny way in ad hoc circumstances but there’s so so so much more that needs to be done to state schools to make them ever match what the private sector offers.

I simply don’t get this mentality that those making sacrifices must make more when it comes to bloody education. I say this as someone who can’t afford the fees but if I could I absolutely would… and I also acknowledge that I am unwilling to go to some lengths that others will to pay it. I respect the choice of others to make such sacrifices and have no desire to make it harder and more inaccessible for the masses to access it. Similarly, I know plenty of people driving fancy cars and spending loads on holidays… they’ve chosen that over school fees. And those who have spend loads getting into a postcode of a decent state school… should they be paying enhanced tax on their house purchase?

Why do most people think those who pay schools fees are doing so with great ease? Is it basically because they don’t personally know people paying this so accept the media narrative that it’s the mega rich only?

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geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:48

Thewholeplaceglitters · 06/10/2024 18:47

This is where I just lose patience with the argument and think fine, tax away.

The minute someone implies that privately educating their dc means they just care more about said dc & their education than someone using state schools, or talks about all the sacrifices they are making like only having two holidays a year, they are showing how very out of touch they are with the actual reality most people are living with. And rather than seeking to understand, just want to whine about how very unfair it is.

Why not talk to your school? They could always choose to make changes to their budgets and not pass the whole rise on. State schools are functioning on a fraction of the funding…it is possible.

@Thewholeplaceglitters that post was in response to a pretty grotesque comment about people paying for private and being embarrassed they are not rich.

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HateLongCovid · 06/10/2024 18:48

BleachedJumper · 06/10/2024 17:54

I agree a good education is important.

Which is why we need additional funding, and directing the funding, towards state education.

Or do you think a good education is only for those who can afford it?

Absolutely this! Well said 👏👏👏

DadJoke · 06/10/2024 18:48

I’ve been scrimping and saving to go on a month-long luxury trip to Bali, and they have just increased the price of first class tickets! AIBU to think this is a stretch?

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 18:49

CaptainMyCaptain · 06/10/2024 17:55

Yes but to quote a PP I don't care.

Is that because you are a communist? Or hard left socialist?

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:49

Readmorebooks40 · 06/10/2024 18:40

Because it's not fair on the families who can't afford it. There should be no such thing as private schools. The playing field should be level for everyone.

@Readmorebooks40 rather than aspire to make all schools as good as private, just abolish the private ones. What a bizarre attitude.

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MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:50

Nordione1 · 06/10/2024 18:46

Shes not being sacked for the popularity or unpopularity of the scheme. Shes being sacked because the legislation will include universities, swimming schools, nurseries etc. Not just the idealogical targets of the children in private schools. Its an ill thought through rush job despite being one of Labour's flagship money raising schemes. I suppose if you are targeting one type of child's education you have to expect some collateral damage from all the other affected children/young adults. No child is more important than another after all. Equality remember. Why should kids privileged enough to have swimming lessons get off scot free.

So write the legislation so that it doesn't include those things?
Plus I don't see them as equivalent. If you could get university education, swimming lessons etc for free, and choose a fee paying version, then of course VAT should be added.But you can't, so it's not the same.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:50

DadJoke · 06/10/2024 18:48

I’ve been scrimping and saving to go on a month-long luxury trip to Bali, and they have just increased the price of first class tickets! AIBU to think this is a stretch?

@DadJoke it would be unfortunate wouldn’t it? A holiday isn’t the same an an education. Perhaps you can’t grasp that.

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amymel2016 · 06/10/2024 18:50

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MillyMollyMandHey · 06/10/2024 18:50

the playing field is becoming more equal and you all can’t stand it! Absolutely hilarious!

nothing will change.

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:50

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:49

@Readmorebooks40 rather than aspire to make all schools as good as private, just abolish the private ones. What a bizarre attitude.

Or aspire to both?

bananamum13 · 06/10/2024 18:51

State schools generally offer a great education that is available to all.
Sanitary products are apparently a 'luxury' and we have to pay VAT on them, private education is an absolute choice.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:52

bananamum13 · 06/10/2024 18:51

State schools generally offer a great education that is available to all.
Sanitary products are apparently a 'luxury' and we have to pay VAT on them, private education is an absolute choice.

@bananamum13 if state is great then leave the mugs paying for it to do so without making it harder for them?

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Hedgewitch123 · 06/10/2024 18:52

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:49

@Readmorebooks40 rather than aspire to make all schools as good as private, just abolish the private ones. What a bizarre attitude.

You're a very privileged woman with a privileged family to have a,spare salary equivalent to pay for private school for your kids.

Stop moaning and be grateful for what youve got.

People with much less are more grateful and don't moan on forums about shizz like this.

CaptainMyCaptain · 06/10/2024 18:52

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 18:49

Is that because you are a communist? Or hard left socialist?

🤣 lol

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:53

Drinas · 06/10/2024 18:43

Most people fully understand OP (not least because of the multiple threads every day), but many - including myself - still agree with the VAT.

I’m a school governor at a state school. I’m amazed by the number of threads compared to any (?) on improving state education which constitutes ‘93%’ of pupils.

@Drinas yes, because sadly the state sector does not have invested parents in the way the private sector does.

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Comedycook · 06/10/2024 18:53

RachPelders · 06/10/2024 17:46

Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already

Most? No.

Some? Yes.

I understand. I just don't care 🤷‍♀️

This.

So it's too expensive....? Meh, send your DC to a state school like most people do.

NoBodyIdRatherBe · 06/10/2024 18:53

I disagree with private eduction in general. Why do the people who make all the decisions about funding etc for state schools get to opt out of the system for their own children. Get rid of private schools and if parents want to donate £15,000 a year to their kids state school they can.

Aduvetday · 06/10/2024 18:53

It doesn’t matter anyway. It was a populist policy to attract the welfare state votes. Over half of the country are now net dependants. They are now finding out there aren’t enough mugs willing to pay for it all whilst everyone else keeps claiming and staying in part time, poorly paid jobs. It’s these people labour are coming for anyway. Them and pensioners. They need people working and paying tax. The old politics of envy backfiring. So many gullible people fell for it.

Hedgewitch123 · 06/10/2024 18:53

bananamum13 · 06/10/2024 18:51

State schools generally offer a great education that is available to all.
Sanitary products are apparently a 'luxury' and we have to pay VAT on them, private education is an absolute choice.

Amen... no point arguing with such privileged people whi claim to be hard done by.

Imagine having so much spare cash for multiple holidays and private school then crying about it.

Madness.

Superhansrantowindsor · 06/10/2024 18:53

It comes across on some social media sites and here that private schools are taking away from state schools. The fact that a kid at private school gets to sit in a small class in a safe building has not taken anything away from my state school educated dc. In fact his parents have helped by paying into a system they will never use. How is it fair to get even more money from them? Everybody with half a brain cell knows that schools need more money. A lot more money. But I do believe this is an unfair way of raising the money and it isn’t even going to raise as much as they thought. FWIW - I’m a state school teacher with state school educated dc.

Nordione1 · 06/10/2024 18:54

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:50

So write the legislation so that it doesn't include those things?
Plus I don't see them as equivalent. If you could get university education, swimming lessons etc for free, and choose a fee paying version, then of course VAT should be added.But you can't, so it's not the same.

I mean, I could have a go at correcting the legislation. But I'm not Education Secretary in charge of the policy. Brigette P is, shes messed up and she's on a pretty tight deadline if she's going to sort everything out by the new year. Her incompetence is messing about with children's lives. If you are going to add VAT (unlike any other European country) at least make sure you've worked out how.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:54

ThisTimeNextWeekDavid · 06/10/2024 18:32

And yet I know of children who have behaved appallingly in their private school.

@ThisTimeNextWeekDavid yes and statistically it’s very infrequent compared to the state school.

But you know that.

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KatieL5 · 06/10/2024 18:54

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:45

But that's not how tax works is it? I send my children to state school, but have never used an ambulance or called the fire brigade or the police. I also work when we as a family could afford for me not too.Therefore while I cost the tax payer more in education than some, I cost far less in NHS and other costs. Does that count??
And doesn't your argument also hold for high earners without children? Or with adult children?

“At point of need” is the key phrase.

That is why many countries give income tax relief to parents who use private schools as they recognise the financial benefit the state receives when parents don’t use state assets at the point of need.

Some countries give parents the full annual state education cost and allow them to spend it as they wish. Most choose a state school and therefore have a zero bill. Some put it towards private school fees.

Coruscations · 06/10/2024 18:54

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 17:49

@ItsJustASimpleLine yes, a choice to give their kids the best education possible. Why are we trying to make that harder for your average family?

And yet thousands of children are receiving an excellent education without going near a private school.

I went to a private school. I can say with confidence that the education there certainly was not the best possible. It was really only rescued when I went to a state maintained sixth form college.

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