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5 pages a day reading limit???

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KatieKat188 · 23/09/2024 14:03

Hi all, long time lurker, first time poster.

Very sorry for the long rant and if anyone reads this whole thing, thank you so much in advance!

My daughter is 5 yo, in Year 1, and attends a small private school near us. For the most part, we have been overall very happy with her experience so far, and have been pleased with her reading and writing.

However, all of last year, her teacher kept sending home reading books which were too easy for her, and I spoke to her several times about this, and eventually she started giving her books that were slightly more on her level.

This year she has a new teacher who assessed her reading level at the start of term a few weeks ago and I was instantly a lot happier with the reading level of books coming home, and she was on the Level 4 Biff, Chip and Kipper books.

However, last week, even though her book was a Level 4, it was a bit on the easier side again, and I wrote in her reading diary 'read whole book' - it was about 20 pages with 1 short sentence per page. They swapped the book out and the next one was equally easy for her, including going over the reading comprehension questions, so again I wrote 'read whole book.'

The next day I was met with a note in her reading diary saying 'please only read 1 - 5 pages per day.' I asked my daughter about this and she said her teacher told her that she should only read 5 pages per day in her book.

This bothered me all of Sunday and I e-mailed her teacher this morning to ask what this was about and why school would ever tell a child to limit their reading, and the response I got was that this is school policy, because they often find that children rush to get to the end of the book because they want to swap it or move up a level and haven't actually mastered the comprehension of it. She then recommended that dd is free to choose a second book from the school library and read that after doing 5 pages of her reading book if she wants.

When I tell you I've been shaking with anger and seriously considering withdrawing her from there for the next term...

Is it just me or does this seem completely counterintuitive??? Only read 5 pages of one book because it's school policy but then read as much as you want of another one.

I would understand if it was a case where they are reading the book together as a class or something and don't want anyone reading ahead, but that's not what it is. The kids each choose their own reading book and swap it when they want to.

My husband works at the school as well and spoke to the Head of Primary who said, don't worry, of course you can read more with her if you want to.

But that's not the point... she was told by her teacher... at this young age where she is only starting to really form her opinions about school and reading independently... that she shouldn't be reading more than 5 pages a day.

So she now feels like she is doing something against her teacher's wishes if she wants to read more.

I have honestly never heard of something so insane. I am all for testing reading comprehension. You want them to write a few sentences about the story before swapping it? Great. You want them to tell the teacher about the story before swapping it? Also great. You want them to answer questions about the story? Great. Test their reading comprehension before swapping or moving up.

But in what insane world is it ok to tell a child they SHOULD NOT be reading more than 5 pages?

sigh

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HaveYouSeenRain · 23/09/2024 14:05

Please you are massively overthinking this and wrote a whole essay about a non issue.
“shaking with anger”? Your husband already spoke to the head? you want to withdraw her? Please model some resilience for your child and get over this. It’s not a big deal.

Just read as much as you like with her. Go to
the library and get additional books or buy some. The teacher will have his/her reasons, if you don’t agree and continue reading it won’t harm your child.

CherryValley5 · 23/09/2024 14:06

You are massively overreacting. They usually discuss their book of the week in class - the 5 pages is probably so that a) the kids who have read ahead don’t spoil it for everyone else and b) so that parents don’t feel the need to spend ages on homework every night, rushing through the book. It’s a good limit in my opinion.

NavyBleugh · 23/09/2024 14:07

Your child's teacher is telling you that her reading comprehension needs work. This is why she's being told to slow down.
She can read as much as she likes with you independently, but ask about how to improve her comprehension levels using the book scheme that the school uses.

Spirallingdownwards · 23/09/2024 14:08

Read different books with her. But read only 5 pages of the school book. It is so it lasts the week and so she fully comprehends what she is reading. Often at this age kids can read the words on the page but don't understand what they just read or comprehend it.

Ensure she reads what they set and knows what it means

stackhead · 23/09/2024 14:08

Literally not seeing an issue here. read 5 pages of the dull school book and more pages of a more interesting home/library book.

Should you be truly 'shaking' with rage I would suggest you chill the fuck out.

Blahblah34 · 23/09/2024 14:08

"Shaking with anger" over a Biff and Kipper book. Crikey.

CherryValley5 · 23/09/2024 14:08

Blahblah34 · 23/09/2024 14:08

"Shaking with anger" over a Biff and Kipper book. Crikey.

Only on MN! 🤣

HaveYouSeenRain · 23/09/2024 14:10

Blahblah34 · 23/09/2024 14:08

"Shaking with anger" over a Biff and Kipper book. Crikey.

😂😂 I mean they are pretty awful. Can’t believe I have do read them all again when DC2 goes to school.

StudioCreate · 23/09/2024 14:10

You were shaking with anger? pmsl.

Just read 5 pages and if she wants to continue reading read a different book from home or the library 🤷🏼‍♀️

I was reading by 3 so I was allowed to read whole books in reception from home but it sounds as if your pfb (?) needs more practice at the level they are at.

MummySam2017 · 23/09/2024 14:11

Hi OP, I wouldn’t worry too much. My DD reads her school books but mostly she reads the books I buy her. The school ones are a little boring for her (she’s 7 now) but we need to sign her reading record so it’s just essentially ticking a box. It’s great you’re encouraging reading, just go to the library and she can read all she wants.

HaddyAbrams · 23/09/2024 14:11

Seems like some MNers could do with work on their reading comprehension. OP clearly says her daughter can answer the comprehension questions.
I got told off for "reading too much" at primary school. My DS was similar. I'd just write whatever he had read, school book that he raced through and fully understood, or proper chapter book like Harry Potter.

cheeeesey · 23/09/2024 14:11

"When I tell you I've been shaking with anger and seriously considering withdrawing her from there for the next term..."

🤣🤣 you've got a tough ride ahead of you love.

Ehrman · 23/09/2024 14:12

Read your own books for fun.

Chip and biff are not fun. You have better things to worry about. I’m sure you do

crumblingschools · 23/09/2024 14:13

Are these books part of a phonics scheme?

GoldenNuggets08 · 23/09/2024 14:14

HaddyAbrams · 23/09/2024 14:11

Seems like some MNers could do with work on their reading comprehension. OP clearly says her daughter can answer the comprehension questions.
I got told off for "reading too much" at primary school. My DS was similar. I'd just write whatever he had read, school book that he raced through and fully understood, or proper chapter book like Harry Potter.

In the opinion of the parent, the child's comprehension is good. In the opinion of the teacher, the child needs to slow down and fully comprehend what she is reading......

FrapGlart · 23/09/2024 14:15

Lol, so much for private schools being "better!"

MinnieEgg · 23/09/2024 14:20

If I was paying for school and they were using Biff and Chip books I'd be shaking with anger too!

Nevertheless, it seems they must have done sort of a policy on reading books. They must only change them on certain days and they don't want her to be reading the same book over and over.

Change schools if that's what you think is best.

RightSedFred · 23/09/2024 14:24

This would infuriate me too.

justfornow1 · 23/09/2024 14:25

RightSedFred · 23/09/2024 14:24

This would infuriate me too.

To the point of shaking with anger too?

CocoPlum · 23/09/2024 14:26

Maybe they have a set day or two in the week for changing books. Just read it all and put pages 1-5 in the reading diary, then use the library for much more fun and interesting books. Shaking with rage? Are there other issues you have with the school? Are you doing ok, this is a really extreme reaction and I'm wondering if there is a backstory here?

FWIW I was like your DD, moved to a bigger school and they weren't as accommodating as the previous one in letting me read books from the higher classes, so I just read what I wanted at home instead. Never stopped me reading.

SpikeGilesSandwich · 23/09/2024 14:28
Grin
Pipecleanerrevival · 23/09/2024 14:28

Does it matter? Jump through 5 pages of the hoop and then join a library and she can continue with Proust for fun.

whatsappdoc · 23/09/2024 14:32

Kipper books are a means to an end. To 'learn' about how to read, decode words, look at punctuation etc. Nothing stopping you selecting books to read at her pace. And stop getting upset! So many more important things for that.

MonsteraMama · 23/09/2024 14:34

Mate you are setting yourself and your child up for an absolutely miserable decade plus of education if you get your nose bent this out of shape over something so trivial. Shaking with anger over Biff and Kipper? Get a grip.

deveronvalley · 23/09/2024 14:37

Read 5 pages of the school book. Read as much as you want of your other books. A bright child will be able to understand the difference between reading for work and reading for pleasure. I had an early reader, he read everything and anything. He’s 12 now and has managed to avoid reading a book for about a year because he can’t be bothered reading anymore. It makes no difference. He can still read. His friends can also read and they were years behind him in early primary. Chill out.