Earlier this week, I called the school because of a minor (ish) but niggling and longstanding issue involving my dd (6), and another child.
I suggested a course of action which the teacher happily agreed to but I did add that it was up to the school how they managed it, that was just an idea. I'm not a serial complainer, btw.
Today I go to pick up my dd, and the teacher stops me and tells me she's spoken to the head who felt it was important that I be told two things (basically reasons why she thought I was over reacting). I tried to justify why I brought up the issue because I felt a bit silly, I also said that in that case perhaps I should be talking to the head about it.
At this point she became - well, aggressive. Her eyes opened very wide, she moved closer to me and repeated about three times "are you ok with that?" whilst widening her eyes all the time and quietly but in a hard way, almost through her teeth iyswim. I said " no actually, I think you're being very defensive, I'll speak to you another time", took DD and walked away.
Dh thinks I should speak to her about it next week, I think I should talk to the head about it. At no point was I anything other than polite to her. Do I leave it, speak to the head or ask her why she reated in that way? I know her socially as we live in the same area, but not well.