Aaaahhhh - Treedelivery... well... you will definately need the carrot cake to keep you going!!!
OK -
I decided to do an intimate fun thing for dd's birthday. Basically I want and dd wants to have a rowing party. i.e Her three besties and their Mums and Dads who have become good friends of mine. Local lake, couple of rowing boats and a picnic after.
All of the Mums are activity mucking in sorts and are quite frankly well up for it!!!
However... there have been whispers that it is rude to not invite all the children whose bun fights parties your child has been to (actually to be fair in the case of dd one was completely delightful but the others were horrible and ghastly).
The thing is...
Firstly - It would be too many people to do what we want to do.
Secondly - It is pretty obvious that two of the Mums, now the year is coming to an end, don't gel with me and we have different ways of bringing up our children. We have subtly acknowledged this by distancing ourselves from each other and are now basically polite on the gate but that is all. They do, however, have a slightly school girl humour in terms of seeming to enjoy 'dropping me in it' now and then and I know if I invited them they would either dramatically decline and make me look foolish or come along and make the day eeerrrrmmm... less friendly.
The thing is even the lovely Mummies all tell me if we go somewhere (and at the beginning of the year before we knew each other well we did go to these women's children's huge birthday parties) and do not invite back word will get round and dd will be frankly a social outcast!!!!
Even though - she might have a big party another year and who knows people not invited this time might well be invited later!!! Anyhooo...
I am really interested WWYD???