Hi,
DS1 is in Reception. He is currently learning letter sounds. This despite the fact that he knew them all well before he joined the school in September. They do 2 letters a week apparently with a view to reaching 'sh' 'ch' and 'th' by the end of the year according to his teacher.
Now we have been in and asked about then on 3 separate occasions and last week she reluctantly sent home a list of high frequency words. It says high frequency at the top and it's words that range from 'a' to words like 'down'. She says if we want to be "soldiering ahead" (her words) then we can teach him those at home.
But..I don't want there to be some abstract branch of stuff that I'm doing at home IYSWIM. I bought the JP stuff when he was 3 and I've read the stuff about teaching them to read rather than teaching to recognise random words.
So my question is why isn't he doing all those vowel sounds? Why isn't he learning blends and 'magic e' and stuff. Am I expecting too much? Don't children who know letter sounds on entry (he also knew 'sh' and 'ch' and 'th' then) move on to this stuff? Can't believe I'm finding it so stressful.
Any advice greatly appreciated. And yes I know he should be playing and I believe in this wholeheartedly but in that 10 or 15min of literacy input, why is it teaching him how to read?