seeker - I know what you are saying and all of this crossed my mind too.
Thing is, with such a big class often children like my son can be overlooked. He isnt one for asking for help and he is in a class with a number of children with behavioural difficulties. So often a lot of resources go there. I dont blame the school - it is just the way it is.
The school as a whole are exceptable, but I want to aid ds as much as possible. If I didnt have the money for Kip - I wouldnt send him. But I do - and it is great for him to have that one to one contact.
Selfishly as well it is good for me. At ds school you have 2 parents evenings to discuss your childs progress. The teacher doesnt have enough time for regular up dates - unless there is a problem. With Kip at the end of each session - every week - she updates me and gives me tips on how to help ds.
For instance he struggles with handwriting - I brought it up with the school - but they would not give any extra resources to it. It was left for me to do. I am just not that patient.
Within two sessions his kip teacher told me what he was doing wrong in his letter formation and how to help him improve. within a month his writing has improved 100%. Before it was ilegable - but now it is good - even neat!
Because she has the time to sit just with him - and I get that feedback.
As a side issue I had the satisfaction that in a recent ofsted report the school were critised for not helping enough with boys handwriting!
Also he likes his little Kip Mcgrath class - and it has also helped his IT schools. When they make achievements they get certificates and she rewards ds with little gifts.
sorry to ramble!