Ah UQD has mounted his hobby horse.
"The fact that people think they have to send their children to an "Independent" (also known by normal people as private) school." I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU FIND THIS ANNOYING.
"The fact that a lot of said people think they are a cut above the rest of humanity for doing so." THAT IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD
"The lack of realisation that being able to afford something doesn't make you better than people who can't." THAT IS STILL ALL IN YOUR HEAD
"The people who say "oh, yarse, we're sending Tarquin to St Cuthbert's because he's so bright, don' you know." What am I supposed to answer to that? "We 'chose' a state school because mine are a bit thick?" MORE STUFF THAT IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD
"The bubble that "independent" parents seem to live in." COCOONED BY WEALTH? WE ALL LIVE IN OUR OWN LITTLE COCOONS YOU KNOW.
"The endlessly manufactured debates about the subject." TO WHICH YOU CONTRIBUTE NON-STOP WHICH IS SLIGHTLY SURPRISING GIVEN THAT YOUR DCS ARE IN THE STATE SECTOR
"The post-credit-crunch fashion for hand-wringing over the "nightmare" of having to send one's children to the state schools one had previously spurned, because one can no longer afford the fees. (Although that can be quite funny in a "welcome to the real world, love" kind of way.)" I DON'T KNOW ANYONE WHO HAS DONE THIS - SO I IMAGINE THIS IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD AS WELL. IT TAKES SOME OBSESSIONAL THINKING TO DEVELOP AN IMAGINARY GRUDGE JUST TO ENJOY SOME IMAGINARY SCHADENFREUDE.