With all due respect to those of you who are not believing, is purely your choice.
The way we have presented our case was relevant:
-distance was miscalculated;
-we had attenuating significant medical circumstances (not SEN or disability);
-we did compared the two schools in details in terms of curricular activities;
-our jobs are high risk and we want to ensure that we contribute at maximum to our daughter attendance, therefore we want to be able to bring her and pick her from the school and the option that was offered erred by the council was in opposite direction to our work place;
We also payed a specialised lawyer to prepare our pitch and we have read through.
The questions we were asked were nasty, such as:
-due to your job, do you actually care for your kid?
We then explained in details what activities we are doing with our DD in our time off - is rarely that you see a kid that is well travelled by the age of 4 (we have 4 holidays/year), that speaks 5 languages fluently, swims independently and dances ballet and has seen more than 60% of the theatre plays in London to date- she is taking private individual lessons for ballet. This answer was longer than the actual appeal; this has shown them that we are very involved and they shouldn't judge us based on our jobs - and I did say it politely.
-do you think that your kid is under pressure to achieve?
We have answered that our daughter is going to the lessons and extra activities that she has chosen alone after being exposed to those, and only if she wants to go. We did explained what impact music has on brain development a and neurolinguistic programming and we did emphasise how important are their music and instrument classes that they are oferring; I did explained that their curriculum is build to achieve and they are also proud to be an outstanding Academy.
-why do you think your kid is prejudiced by not attending this school and why is she a good fit?
We went in details to explain how their curricula fits the personality of our DD and we emphasised that; it probably helps that I have a Pedagogy background and I did went into details re. their amazing structure.
All in all, it was not an easy undertaking and definetely our circumstances were unique from a number of reasons including council's fault.
I strongly encourage all the parents to appeal and use common sense, explain their situation in detail and do not ever think not to appeal just because so many parents had negative experiences or think that you don't stand a chance. Do it, without it you will surely not win. You should take this right and use it in your favour, even if you don't have the knowledge needed to present so fluently.
This is my last comment on the thread and I honestly thank you all for actually replying, regardless of your attitude.
Wish all the parents who want to appeal best of luck in this process, all the kids that are due to start Reception best of luck and least but not last, have a lovely holiday!