DS is anxious about KS2 SATS. He is delayed academically by 3 years, has learning difficulties, extra support at school, home tutor etc. Has EHCP, in a mainstream primary. He struggles with anxiety around academic work, and has very low self confidence.
We‘ve not made a thing about Yr6 SATs being important to us, as he won’t pass them. As part of EHCP provision he’ll have a reader and scribe for papers where possible. This has reassured him a little.
It sounds like school has cranked up the preparation from last half-term though, and it sounds like there are quite a few children who are anxious re SATs.
If I thought he could pass them I could reassure him, remind him of previous academic success etc. But I know, and the school know he can’t pass.
Anyone have any words of wisdom about how to reassure a child worried about failing when they will not pass. Some of the things I’ve said to him are that his results will help school to see what support he needs in the future, but he still has absorbed the idea that these are hugely important tests to pass.