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Forcing child to attend school camping trip?

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Anorthernlass · 18/05/2022 09:08

My DD does not want to go on a 5 day school camping trip mostly because of embarassing and uncomfortable health issues. I don't think forcing her, with the possibility of having a negative experience, is a good idea.

Presumably because of pandemic delays this is a trip that involves the whole of year 5 and 6. Anyone who does not attend has to spend the week with year 4.

DD is now terrified of being teased for not attending and anxious about the mortifying?? experience of spending the week with year 4. You can't win.

I would love DD to go but I think forcing a child is wrong. I think the five day is very long for any child tbh - my older son had a three day trip.

If the tables were turned and this was an adult, they would have a choice to say no, and imho many with health problems would.

What should I do? Any advice on how to handle this?

HebeMumsnet · 23/05/2022 12:53

Morning, everyone. We just wanted to pop in and try and get this thread back on track.

The discussion about disability rights is really interesting and this is definitely something that affects lots of Mumsnetters and their children, but perhaps it would be best to have that discussion separately on another thread in this instance.

As this thread specifically is more of a personal support thread, and the OP seems to have said that her child doesn't have a disability but more of an ongoing health issue, it might be best to get back to her original question and, as we said, have more general discussions about the way children with disabilities are enabled to take full part in school trips on a different thread.

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